Hello VerityMargaret .I am nearly 6 months post THR . I was very anxious about the surgery , putting it off , in denial , all through fear . The pain and becoming virtually immobile really decided it for me , I knew I had to have it done and im so glad I did .
I was frightened of all the things you've mentioned but I can honestly say that now , having gone through it , there was no need .
The surgery was at 8am , first down , with epidural and sedation , I asked the anesthetist to make sure I didn't hear or see anything and I had the deepest sleep and was cared for on PACU by a wonderful nurse afterwards . Surgeon said I was a text book case and after passing my physio assessment later that afternoon I was discharged at 6pm and home by 7.
I didn't have a single bruise , no staples , it was glued and I can barely see the scar now .
I was very diligent with my pain relief and exercises and I have healed well .
The difference it has made to me , the joy of walking with no pain , I have got my life back .
Yes each day of recovery brought new challenges but listen to your body , it has amazing powers to heal and recover . Some quicker , some slower . I wasn't in a hurry , I took my time .
Yes it does come with risks , of course but follow all the advice you are given . Try and eat well before the op and look after your immune system. I'm sure all will be well and you'll be so happy when it's over . One day at a time . Give yourself a chance . All the best to you .