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wildrose Sun 16-Nov-25 18:31:50

I am due a review with my nurse in two weeks time and I am dreading it. I am struggling with my eating habits (craving carbs) and start every day with best intentions only to give in to cravings more or less straight away.
I know what I need to do but feel I am choosing to sabotage things for myself for some reason.
My question is, if anyone has any suggestions, how to put this to my nurse who has said that insulin would be the next step if I don't get better control. My hbA1c is now 60 and I have made no progress since my last review.
I was prescribed a second add in medication as it was thought the first was not working but I KNOW that my eating habits are too blame and I don't know what to do. I think I need to be completely honest with her despite the shame I feel but I wonder if anyone has been started on insulin with the same level? I feel lost. Thanks for reading - it feels better just writing this out.

mrsmeldrew Tue 18-Nov-25 16:50:39

My DH type 1. He has a libre sensor. He also likes coffeemate. I didn't know there is a sugar free version. Coffeemate is very expensive we buy the one in Home Bargains which is considerably cheaper. He is 11 and a half stone. I find crisp packets in the bin after he takes the dogs out for walk. He also has a weakness for liquorice toffees. But he doesn't care for cakes and sweets. He also has pancreatic insufficiency so has stopped drinking and has a low fat diet. He remains remarkably cheerful!

silverlining48 Tue 18-Nov-25 16:05:01

Wildrose, just tell the nurse the truth, they will have heard it all before and they can’t help without knowing how you feel.
Good luck at the appointment.

silverlining48 Tue 18-Nov-25 16:03:22

I have recently started the 14/14 week national pre diabetes course, spread over til June next year. I was shocked when I got the result of a blood test which was for something else, because I exercise, always eat healthily and recently lost a stone, but have had to accept it.

Problem is I have started to want food I dont usually eat, but now I want to eat. Chocolate, bread etc, craving it now is terrible timing.

I am at the low end of pre diabetes on 42 so don’t have too far to go but would like a bit of wriggle room, under 40 perhaps. Fingers and toes crossed I stop craving what I should not eat.

Sarnia Tue 18-Nov-25 15:25:22

I would be honest with the nurse, otherwise how can she help you. I am currently coming to the end of a pre-diabetic course of 14 sessions which have opened my eyes to all sorts of changes I needed to make with my eating. Could your nurse refer you to something like that?

icanhandthemback Tue 18-Nov-25 11:52:50

Floradora9

If you have to start using insulin injections it is really no big deal . Through no fault of my own I started on insulin about 10 years ago injecting twice a day and it just becomes routine . My last diabetic review I was so pleased because my blood sugar was low . I got a shock when the nurse phoned my to say it was too low and to reduce the insulin . I do not know why this has happened but she wants my readings to be higher than I have been having " at my age " .

Lows are possible on insulin and you have to notify the DVLA, test before driving, etc. I would resist insulin for as long as possible if there are other drugs I could use first and it was safe to do so. However, if I end up on insulin, I won't blame myself. It wouldn't be for lack of trying to keep low. For all those who think Type 2 is a fault thing, they should try to live with it. It's funny how people with other conditions are excused because it is a hormone imbalance, an addiction, etc. A lack of insulin or insulin resistance plays havoc with your need for sugar, your emotional well being, etc. People should be a lot kinder.

Floradora9 Mon 17-Nov-25 21:43:15

If you have to start using insulin injections it is really no big deal . Through no fault of my own I started on insulin about 10 years ago injecting twice a day and it just becomes routine . My last diabetic review I was so pleased because my blood sugar was low . I got a shock when the nurse phoned my to say it was too low and to reduce the insulin . I do not know why this has happened but she wants my readings to be higher than I have been having " at my age " .

Esmay Mon 17-Nov-25 20:34:15

You are not one-there's nothing like being a diabetic to make you crave forbidden foods!
Don't let the nurse bully or upset you.
Let's see what's on offer .
There may be some help .

Two of my friends with type two diabetes have dramatically reduced their weight .
They both were two fat jolly ladies and great to be with
Now they are diet bores and completely obsessed with their weight loss .
They aren't fun to be with .

I'm not saying that getting your weight down when diabetic isn't advisable if not essential.
It is
But I sometimes wonder if they both weren't much happier before!

Wishing you luck .

loopyloo Mon 17-Nov-25 19:51:32

The codefree one is £20 online. Approximately.

loopyloo Mon 17-Nov-25 19:49:10

Do invest in glucose monitor. Don't wait to control the cravings.

Thisismyname1953 Mon 17-Nov-25 19:42:20

I was in the same position as OP with my diabetes. I’ve been tpye2 for about 10 years and controlled by metformin . In 2020 I was hospitalised with Covid and although my Covid symptoms weren’t too bad my HBA1C was very high , 27 in the old measurement. The only way they could get it down was to put me on a high dose of insulin twice a day . This carried on for 4 years with no real improvement. In November last year my diabetic nurse started me on mounjaro injections . Within a week I was taken off insulin completely . I have lost at least 4 stones and my last blood level was 42 . She said if this continues to fall I will no longer be diabetic. My kidneys were starting to be affected , but tests say they are now normal. My diabetic retinopathy test last year showed the beginning of problems but last month the test showed my eyes are fine.
I also cannot exercise due to being disabled but Mounjaro has turned my life around . I am no longer obese just overweight and I hope to get down to a not weight soon .

Jenny62 Mon 17-Nov-25 19:33:55

I’ve been type 2 diabetic for around 23 years. I was put on Mounjaro in August last year. The day after I had the first injection my reading went down to 6.2 and has stayed there. I also follow the Fast 800 / Mediterranean diet which has helped loads

wildrose Mon 17-Nov-25 18:00:35

That's interesting to hear about Mounjaro - I am only in the overweight bracket but wouldn't be happy injecting. I do use the Nutracheck app but it's the seemingly uncontrollable bingeing on carbs that is doing the damage. I am thinking of self funding a glucose monitor but it's not going to help until I get the carb craving sorted.
I do appreciate all this input and am going to try being proactive at the appointment.

FranP Mon 17-Nov-25 17:47:47

I was sent by my GP to a pre-diabetic online course - helpful and enlightening because is talks about the whole of you, not just your blood sugars. You are part of a group, so doing it together helps www.england.nhs.uk/diabetes/diabetes-prevention/

Mrsdof Mon 17-Nov-25 17:46:40

If you want to see what foods are good or bad, try using the Yuka app (found on the App Store). You can scan the barcode on the packaging and it rates the item Poor, Bad, Good or Excellent. I have recently been told I am Pre Diabetic and have found this app to be really helpful in knowing what constitutes good or bad food items. If the item comes up as Poor or Bad it offers alternatives. It can even be used on most beauty products.

FranP Mon 17-Nov-25 17:36:10

My DH has been put onto Mounjaro to try to prevent his next move to insulin. He has lost 12 lb in 4 weeks and his carb craving is right down, along with his need to snack

wildrose Mon 17-Nov-25 17:19:14

Sadly I am a fair bit older than 65 but that sounds like a really helpful too. Good luck!

JamesandJon33 Mon 17-Nov-25 16:24:22

swampy Thank you for that heads-up about Coffeemate. I too am type 2 and have been successful over the past 10 years keeping my blood sugar in check. But lately it has raised a little to 52. Might it be the Coffeemate. We shall see

Kloppqueen Mon 17-Nov-25 15:57:23

I've been put on the NHS Path to Remission programme. I am doing really well so far. You have to report to a coach every week which really helps keep you in check. The first 12 weeks are hard because you have to have replacement meals 7 times a day. You consume, on average, 800 cals a day but if you can get through that then it's so worth it.

The programme lasts 12 months. After the first 12 weeks you gradually reduce the replacement meals and reintroduce "real" food. They provide you with plenty of recipes and tips to help along the way.

You have to test your blood regularly and send in the readings and check you weight, and again report the results.

My nurse is really impressed with this programme and the results.

You have to be under 65 to take part, and have to be referred by your GP/Diabetic nurse.

wildrose Mon 17-Nov-25 15:26:57

So many inspiring stories! Thank you. I know I'm going to have to open up completely at my appointment but I do feel such a failure (I'm successful in other ways in my life but can't seem to take care of my health for some reason) and I don't like to be seen as such. I'm forever saying "I'll start tomorrow". I would understand if she thinks I do need shocking in to action. I will try to write something down in order to focus on what I need to get across. I fear I'll dissolve into tears and that will annoy me too. Thanks again everyone.

cc Mon 17-Nov-25 14:51:24

wildrose

Thank you all for the advice you've given. I think I know I've reached the point of needing more help in the way of proper guidance but I absolutely do not want to take insulin as I see that, rightly or wrongly, as the final step and a sign that I have let myself down badly.
I know exactly what I should be doing, and I have actually lost almost 2st taking me to 11st but I am bingeing on carbs and can't seem to stop. I don't invite how to begin the conversation with my nurse.
I am so encouraged to hear of the success stories you've told - it's where I want to get to but I need help.

Both my husband and I are pre-diabetic and keep it under control by being careful about the carbs we eat. For example some potatoes are better than others (new potatoes) and some rice (sticky is the worst and obviously brown is best). We eat more pulses now too.
Strangely, reheated pasta is better than freshly cooked if you can be bothered to cook it in advance, as are some others (try looking up "resistant carbs list" on Google).
He likes wholemeal bread or bread which contains oats, both of which are better. I'm gluten intolerant so can't eat this, but have found a GF rye bread which is ideal. Neither of us add sugar to drinks and don't eat cake or biscuits.
All of these small changes are obviously working as he had dropped out of being pre-diabetic last time he had a check-up,

icanhandthemback Mon 17-Nov-25 13:48:16

I've been put on Ozempic to deal with this. I had to fight hard but as someone who has binge eaten many times through my struggles with diabetes, I finally managed to get through the red tape. It really has worked for me.

wildrose Sun 16-Nov-25 21:44:49

Thank you all for the advice you've given. I think I know I've reached the point of needing more help in the way of proper guidance but I absolutely do not want to take insulin as I see that, rightly or wrongly, as the final step and a sign that I have let myself down badly.
I know exactly what I should be doing, and I have actually lost almost 2st taking me to 11st but I am bingeing on carbs and can't seem to stop. I don't invite how to begin the conversation with my nurse.
I am so encouraged to hear of the success stories you've told - it's where I want to get to but I need help.

Trisha99 Sun 16-Nov-25 21:16:48

My husband is Type2, has now been on insulin for around 6 months and wears a Libre sensor which is very helpful in seeing what spikes his number and what helps bring it down.
When his diabetes was first picked up by a routine blood test his hbA1c was 82.
Bread is his weakness, he has cut down slightly but the main change is from white to brown, and eating lighter bread.
He tries to go for a walk after every meal, and if that isn’t possible will use my exercise bike.
Exercise, even a small amount, helps bring his number down.
It’s taken a while, but most days now he’s in single figures.
Please don’t feel ashamed about what you eat, be open with your nurse as she can’t help if you don’t tell her that you’re struggling.

loopyloo Sun 16-Nov-25 20:48:51

Also do you test your blood sugars?
It's worth getting a machine and testing to see what your sugars go up to as you go along rather than waiting for hbaic result.

loopyloo Sun 16-Nov-25 20:45:48

I too would recommend a trial with a libre 2 machine.
You might be able to get a 2 week trial free.
It's really illuminating.
I am now reading the fast 800 book by Mosely and starting to follow that.
I have the book close to me as a reminder. Am now beginning to feel better about things.
Don't despair, you can do it.