Should I move?

Is a garden flat in your area a possibility?

It’s all about future proofing.

I am 62 my husband is 69, we sold our large Victorian home of 15 years and moved to a slightly smaller but 3 year old property 20 miles away.

It is the best thing we ever did, because of the layout we use all the space, it’s light, warm and easy to maintain.

The move was hard work and stressful but most definitely worth it.

I know my situation is different because I have a husband but our thinking was that when one of us dies this is a much more convenient property.

What about a stair lift?

There is no easy answer, I’m afraid. You’re wise to be thinking about moving while you can.
We moved to a bungalow and have no regrets. Life is much easier and so many things are manageable now. Having said that, we are on the outskirts of town…
You will make friends wherever you move to. I have the best neighbours ever.
Maybe start viewing properties? That will concentrate your mind. Good luck!

I live alone in a very cold, very big, old Victorian town house ….near the sea, near the shops, near a bus stop I would absolutely hate to move, I d rather workaround what I ve got, the thought of moving sends horror signals to me. To start again at my age or to live in a complex with all old people however convienent, would send me into a flux. I ll stay until I go from this life if I can. I ll get a stairlift, I can get a bathroom fix if needed but I couldn’t leave my house we ve got old together and we both falling apart together 🤣🤣🤣

Garden flat sounds lovely but what if the people above you are awful or they are nice and move on and the new ones are awful I think there’s a huge question mark with flats

I’m presuming here that you live in a town?

Do you drive?

Are there bus routes from the places with the bungalows?

I’ve accidentally ended up in a futureproofed house (new build, accessible) but I feel like I live in town as it’s such a short drive or I can just hop on a bus that comes every 15 minutes

Have you looked into options of transport?

I understand your reluctance to move

If this was me, I’d have my house valued and put it on the market and see what happens.

I’d consider a garden flat too or a bungalow with a not too large garden.

Stairlifts are great, BUT, when you live alone, my mother struggled getting things up and down the stairs once my DF died.

Future-proofing and/or moving are so much better done when you’re still fit and healthy and fully mobile.

Good luck, whatever you decide.

Thank you all for your comments. I want to avoid a flat because of the leasehold implications. I do drive but don’t like being reliant on a car. Yes, maybe viewing some properties might help me decide - I’ve seen a couple I like.

You spend more time inside your home than outside.
Do the stairs several times each day probably.
Enjoy the light days when we have them but not in a dark house.

If this sounds like you then I think you should move. Just another persons opinion who is also getting older!

Does it really have to be a bungalow how about a smaller newer townhouse nearer to where you are now.

I think you should find a bungalow in a quiet street just out of town.All on one level with a small garden should suit you better and you can enjoy making it your own.
There will be buses into town.

I’m sure you’ll be thinking carefully about where you would move too - you’ll need good access to all amenities - shops, doctors surgery, chemist, dentist, etc, especially if the time comes when you no longer drive.

If you’ve seen somewhere that fulfils these criteria, then by all means consider a move. On the other hand would it be possible to do some configuration in your present home? Perhaps install a stair lift or possibly a small lift if there’s space for one and possibly a bedroom downstairs if, again, there’s room. This might be considerably cheaper than the cost of moving house.

However, if you’re finding this house too dark, which will be difficult to change, and the stairs too steep, then do look around.

I moved into a 2 bed terraced house, once a farm cottage, with a smallish garden on the outskirts of a NW town. It was a huge step down from the 4 bed detached I had previously. This was a move forced on me by divorce. At first I hated it. I felt as though I’d sunk to the bottom, but it was what I could afford at the time. As my finances improved I seriously considered moving. But I was getting older. Shops, GP, pharmacist, hair dresser are all a five minute walk away, and a bus to the local shopping centre, or town centre is even closer. My neighbours are wonderful. Now I no longer drive I am so grateful I didn’t move. I will get a stairlift if I need one.
Saying all that this Victorian house has been an absolute money pit. It is now, finally, the way I want it and I would be reluctant to leave all that investment behind.
I wish you luck, just remember we all get older so make sure there is easy access to everything you need.

Oreo

I think you should find a bungalow in a quiet street just out of town.All on one level with a small garden should suit you better and you can enjoy making it your own.
There will be buses into town.

This sounds perfect