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Horrible bacteria C. Difficile

(8 Posts)
crazyH Thu 30-Apr-26 00:09:25

So sorry to hear about your DH. Advice heeded.
Hope he gets well soon from this and also hope that the prostate issue is minimal. All the best !

Llamedos13 Thu 30-Apr-26 00:00:00

Hi Canadian Gran, from another Canadian. I could have written your story except my husband was not:admitted to hospital. He was lucky as his gp knew what the problem was as soon as symptoms appeared.
Over the course of the infection he lost over 20 pounds.He was prescribed a very expensive antibiotic not covered by our insurance plan.His dr. advised him to eat lots of blue cheese as well as take probiotics.The prostrate was fine,there was no problem. I sincerely hope your husband makes a good recovery, it’s a very nasty thing and I send you lots of sympathy.

Jaxjacky Wed 29-Apr-26 21:50:05

That sounds horrendous CanadianGran your poor husband and you.
I do hope he recovers well, you’ll be watching like a hawk, advice noted, thanks.

imaround Wed 29-Apr-26 21:46:58

I am so sorry. My mom dealt with this and it is a terrible thing to recover from. Did they put you on antibiotics for it? In the US, everyone in the house gets a treatment for this.

I am sending healing thoughts for a quick recovery for him.

Greyduster Wed 29-Apr-26 21:43:10

CanadianGran that sounds like such an awful ordeal for you both and for your family. I hope your DH continues to makes a good recovery now that he’s home. Make sure you also take care of yourself. It’s so easy to ignore your own well-being when you are totally focussed on someone else’s. 💐💐

dragonfly46 Wed 29-Apr-26 21:41:53

So sorry to read about your poor DH’s illness. It sounds horrific and an awful worry for you.
I hope he recovers soon and has the strength to face the next steps.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 29-Apr-26 21:38:03

Oh CanadianGran I’m so sorry to hear of all this. Your poor husband and, well, all of you really it’s been a pretty traumatic time for you all. I bet you were all so scared.

Best wishes for his steady and complete recovery.
And reassurance in the long run re the prostate condition too.

CanadianGran Wed 29-Apr-26 21:33:00

My poor DH has suffered the last 10 days from C. Difficile bacterial infection of his bowel, to the point where he could have died.

I believe it all started about 6 weeks ago, when he had a course of preventive antibiotics before a prostate biopsy (more on that later). Apparently antibiotics can upset the healthy gut microbiome, leading to good bacteria being depleted, and bad bacteria taking over. He progressively started with diarrhea, getting worse and worse until he was doubled over with pains, and started a fever. We took him up to emergency on the 16th; they couldn't find anything so sent him home. On the 17th, he was in worse shape, so up to emerge we went again. They did get a diagnosis this time.

He ended up in ICU (intensive care unit) for 3 days at a larger hospital 1.5 hours from home. After a scan revealed some concern for his bowel, an emergency operation was done. It was horrible that he had to call his kids and sister to say a possible goodbye. The operation revealed distension and distress of his bowel, but no need to remove it, and no rupture. Thank goodness. I had booked into a hotel, and my younger son came up to spend the night while we waited for him to come out of surgery.

So since then it has been a slow recovery, which make take weeks or even months. We are home now, but his is very fragile, sore and weak, poor man.

So for those with a lower immune system, please always ensure to wash hands after every time you are out in public. This bacteria travels by contact, not airborne. It's a horrible infection and I am so glad my DH is still here with me. We do have a prostate battle ahead of us, but first recover from this.

Thanks for allowing me to vent. Family and friends have been wonderful, but it's been a trying time.