I’m finding it more and more difficult to cope with OH’s faecal incontinence.I know he really can’t help it as he has limited mobility and just can’t get to the loo in time, but the way I’m supposed to deal with the clearing up, washing, floor scrubbing etc. is really getting me down and I feel so angry. I feel ashamed of my anger but at 90 years old I want a peaceful time and I so resent having to cope like this. OH doesn’t seem that bothered or concerned about my feelings, just tells me he’s made a mess and leaves me to clean up.
Any advice or helpful replies would be much appreciated!
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