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Inherited Ornaments

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gracesmum Thu 17-Oct-13 12:22:38

If things are breakable, DGC or large dogs can usually be relied on to dispose of them. If not, a box in the garage and if nobody has noticed for at least a year....out. BUT do not on pain of major grief watch Antiques Road Show /Cash in the Attic/Flog It or any such like as you will see the item and it will be worth an arm and a leg. Don't say you have not been warned.grin

moomin Thu 17-Oct-13 11:58:10

I think you've worked it out jane - sort out with your family who wants what and pack away in separate boxes in the loft. Anything else either sell or give away. Sounds heartless, but I've done the "down-sizing" a couple of times in the past 10 years and have made myself get rid of stuff I don't like! Can be quite cathartic smile

Tegan Thu 17-Oct-13 11:53:23

My mum had two statuettes, La Belle Dame Sans Merci and a matching one. I would give anything to have those statuettes now but where and when they went is a mystery. I want my kids to go through my stuff and tell me what they want to keep, but they 'never have the time'. I've even resorted to things like putting lables on things saying 'this could be worth something'.

petallus Thu 17-Oct-13 11:51:20

One tip I read was to take photos of stuff before you give it away or pack it in the loft. I've never done that myself though.

Galen Thu 17-Oct-13 11:47:37

I have two Staffordshire pottery dogs. Very common in Victorian times. They were my great grans. They are unusual in that they are green and white. I've never seen another pair that colour. Has anyone else?
I have put them away as my cleaner is rather clumsy.

janerowena Thu 17-Oct-13 11:31:03

We can't agree as to which pieces, that is partly the problem. We have such different tastes. What has happened is that it is my own ornaments and pictures that have ended up in the loft since we downsized, the inherited stuff is all out. I agree with William Morris and always tried to live by that maxim, and I think that on the whole one memento per much-loved relative is sufficient as a lovely reminder, but things have got out of hand. I think just writing it on here has cleared the fog a little, I shall make the children tell me which pieces they really want kept and put them away in the loft, then we must choose which pieces we like to see from what is left, and the rest must go. Life is too short to spend most of it thinking about dusting knick knacks.

thatbags Thu 17-Oct-13 11:17:00

If they are all dead, give it to Oxfam. You could keep anything of sentimental or beauty value.

William Morris: "Keep nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." Or words to that effect.

petallus Thu 17-Oct-13 11:13:48

I don't have as much as you but last year I packed it up in labelled boxes and put it in the loft for the children to sort out eventually.

janerowena Thu 17-Oct-13 11:00:14

gracesmum bemoaned the lack of threads about ornaments, so I felt I could fill the gap. grin

The guilt, oh the guilt... When a beloved grandmother leaves you a much prized but truly vile ornament in their will. No, make that two grandmothers and three aunts, one great aunt and that's only my side of the family. DBH has also been left trophies and metronomes, tankards and not one but several complete sets of china.

Some has fallen by the wayside, some we have managed to pass on, some has been broken, but not nearly enough. I do like some of it, but not much if I am honest, I would love an uncluttered house, although I do manage to keep it all housed in modern display units rather than scattered along every window sill.

Every time we move we have the same problem - where to house it all, where to display it, if to display it or to hide it, how to keep it all clean and part of me longs to slip the removal men a few pounds to break it on purpose.

Just sitting here, I have above my head a large display cabinet containing antique decanters and glasses, a large silver trophy from the late 1800 for a sporting GGF, silver teapot, coffee pot and sugar and milk containers, and a couple of ancient chinese ornaments. The glasses and decanters are never used, I hate the silver and particularly the cleaning of it, but we can't seem to agree as to what should happen to it all and this is only the tip of the iceberg. Our children would like much of it but are not in positions to house it just yet and I feel as if I am housing the adult version of 'I gave away the Star Wars toys'.

How do you deal with the problem?