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the man drawer

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campodol Thu 05-Mar-15 15:33:08

does your DH have his man drawer? mine does , its full to overflowing with useful things !! dud batteries , calenders from 1987, broken bits of anything, reading glasses going back to the year dot with arms missing ?? oh my goodness all things that according to him he might need and you can bet your life if i go in and get rid of anything next day he.ll ask for it, i think they have a 6th sense as far as their man drawer goes

loopylou Sun 08-Mar-15 15:08:55

smile I'm far more ruthless than DH; he's just finished 'tidying' our garden shed. I have a small crate of gardening bits, he's pretty much put everything else back 'in case it comes in useful'- I despair!

petra Sun 08-Mar-15 14:51:40

I'm with Minestrone on this. I also go by the old adage of: if it is not nice to look at or has no purpose, it's out.

rubylady Sat 07-Mar-15 00:08:04

I do now Galen My ex H complained often that he only had one man cupboard in the entire house. I wonder why we got divorced? grin

Galen Fri 06-Mar-15 10:53:42

Brag alert
I have a woman house!

janerowena Fri 06-Mar-15 10:27:01

I do mind when he doesn't keep it tidy enough to find what he needs, then goes out and buys yet more. Other than that, I think of it as his security blanket. Who could be mean enough to take that away?

Lona Fri 06-Mar-15 10:19:43

I think this thread is a bit sexist. I've always had a woman drawer, with screwdrivers, pliers, string, bluetack, notepads and lots of pens, paperclips, insulation tape, fuses and drawing pins etc.
I also have a large pine dresser with a row of spice drawers, and they are all filled with useful stuff!
And I have a shed!
I would love a useful garage too grin

Galen Thu 05-Mar-15 21:41:14

The odd rusty screw, clamp or needle file plus an odd assortment of string, wire, nails etc?

granjura Thu 05-Mar-15 21:34:18

Minestronie a man needs a man draw, a few in fact. Must say I would never throw any of his stuff away- as long as he keeps the stuff in his 'den' and out of my way. Galen- surprisingly, there is rarely a week when he does not find something terribly useful or absolutely needed in one of his man drawssmile

durhamjen Thu 05-Mar-15 21:29:48

Galen, what if he was right? Wouldn't you feel terrible if you needed something he kept after you had thrown it out?
That's my excuse three years later.
Another problem is that my sons keep saying they are going to collect their dad's things. They borrow things, but then bring them back because they do not have room in their garages!
I do not mind really.

Minestronie Thu 05-Mar-15 20:39:22

No man drawer in our house he has his shed and garage too store his rubbish. If he leaves things lying around i say is this for the bin, soon gets shifted -smile

Galen Thu 05-Mar-15 20:38:37

Omg. The fatal 'might be useful one day' scenario!
My house is overfull of these items!

Marmight Thu 05-Mar-15 20:31:04

I left one man drawer in tact after DH died. It's in the bedside table and is full of things like small change, watches various, receipts, glasses, notes from small daughters, membership cards to Boat club/Rotary etc., pills, keys and lots of fluff. Just can't bring myself to sort it out. The other man drawer in the utility room which was full of bits of string, batteries, assorted screwdrivers, rawl plugs, 5 reels of half used masking tape and 'will be useful one day' stuff, I have finally replaced with my 'Woman' drawer bits!

Galen Thu 05-Mar-15 19:55:40

Dh died in 2003! I still haven't managed to get rid of all his clutter!
(Memo to self:- order skip for after Easter)

ffinnochio Thu 05-Mar-15 19:12:13

No, Mr. F doesn't have a man draw.

We have several draws. One that contains batteries, plugs, bulbs of different types, and tiny screwdrivers useful for glasses. Another that contains various leads to tv, computers, memory sticks, camera stuff and other techy items. Organised and useful. smile I'd be lost without them.

Lona Thu 05-Mar-15 19:07:46

Now I wouldn't mind one of those loopy grin

loopylou Thu 05-Mar-15 19:06:11

grin
For a wonderful moment I thought the subject meant a drawer in which you could put a man......presumably to only let them out on high days and holidays (sometimes!)
Wishful thinking I guess?

Mishap Thu 05-Mar-15 19:02:40

Just the one drawer? - I wish!!

Katek Thu 05-Mar-15 19:01:31

Oh Lona, believe me I have tried!!

Lona Thu 05-Mar-15 18:58:30

I don't know why how you all put up with it! grin

MiniMouse Thu 05-Mar-15 18:48:03

Oh yes! Man drawer in the kitchen, Man Corner in kitchen with a basket full of things that should carry a health warning, various Man Drawers in the bedroom units, Man heaps all over the place gently morphing into Man-heap avalanches (any day now grin) . . .

annodomini Thu 05-Mar-15 18:11:32

How do I manage to have so much clutter when there isn't a man in the house? grin

Juliette Thu 05-Mar-15 18:08:50

We have a man room. It started off as an office, all good. It now resembles a teenage boy's room without the socks and whiff of testosterone. I believe there is dust, I do not know I do not enter.

soontobe Thu 05-Mar-15 17:38:42

Yes. It had 52 keys in it at the last count!

Katek Thu 05-Mar-15 17:33:08

I'm with you Loopylou.....mine has a man drawer, utility room cupboard, merchant chest of cd's, chest of drawers in spare room, top shelf of hall cupboard, 2 sheds, a small workshop and a garage of doom. Oh and not forgetting the drawer under the bed which is full of empty watch boxes! I think we have a hoarding issue. grin

loopylou Thu 05-Mar-15 17:12:41

Can't _not 'can'!