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To move or not to move

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Emelle Sun 08-Mar-15 16:32:17

Thank you for valuable comments! We look after two of the grandchildren one day a week so feel that we already know the area and have some contacts there but I also realise we would be leaving sections of life behind. The idea of renting for a couple of months is a really good idea and I will definitely look into that.

Mishap Sun 08-Mar-15 16:04:58

All I would say is to do lots of research before making the move - not just into houses, but into clubs, social opportunities, places to pursue your hobbies and to meet people. These are even more important than the accommodation you live in.

When we were contemplating a move to Brittany (an area we know well) several years ago (which was scuppered for health reasons and the arrival of a rash of GC!) we spent a couple of weeks devoted to the social opportunities and I set up various visits on the email and on an ex-pat forum before our visit. We sang with a choir there for one rehearsal, met someone who was interested in using my photographic skills for part-time work, looked into volunteering possibilities etc. All this was very important in our decision-making.

As I say, in the end it all fell through, but we really did feel that if we had made the move, we had laid important groundwork as to what we would DO while we were there, rather than just where we might live.

I am sure you will not be short of things to do if you are moving nearer to the GC! - but you will also need your own social life.

The other thing to say is that if you are a townie, think hard about moving too far out in the country - and vice versa.

The other piece of advice is to rent in the area for a period of weeks to get a better picture of how you might fit in.

Good luck!

hildajenniJ Sun 08-Mar-15 15:34:34

When my OH retires next year, we are definitely going to sell up here and move nearer to our DD. Work commitments keep us here at present, but when we are both retired we will not be able to afford to run this house. It is in a lovely setting on the edge of a small town, overlooking the countryside, but I have never felt as if I really belong here. I am looking forward to May 2016, and the next stage of my life.

Emelle Sun 08-Mar-15 15:23:41

For the last ten years I have wanted to move house because the area we live in is in decline but work commitments prevented this. Since my retirement last year it is now more feasible that we sell up and move nearer to our daughters and grandchildren. My other half is not just as keen although is now actually discussing the possibility. I am sure other people have had a similar dilemma and would love to read other peoples thoughts as I hope it would help me make sense of the numerous thoughts I have about this.