I don't live there, but we have a timeshare in nearby Bournemouth so have driven through it quite often. Highcliffe has a small high street but is very near Christchurch which is a bustling town with lots of nice coffee shops and restaurants. There is lovely green area by the abbey ruins which fronts on to the river. It's really nice down there, particularly in the summer we like the Boathouse restaurant, very clapperboard New England style situated on the green facing the river in Christchurch a great place for afternoon tea or an al fresco meal on a sunny day. I don't think Highcliffe has a train station but Christchurch certainly does and connects with Bournemouth in one direction and Southampton and eventually London in the other direction. Lymington is also nearby, a lovely Georgian town, again with nice shops and restaurants. All that, and the New Forest as well. I think your husband has opted for a nice part of the world NotTooOld if you decide to move there.