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Do you like your grandchild's name?

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TinyTwo Fri 11-Mar-16 13:17:26

My son is due to have a baby in April. We're all very excited, hope to be as involved in the new baby's life as much as we are in our other grandchildren's, will help out as much - or as little - as needed. My DIL happened to mention her favourite name the other day and I had to bite my lip very hard not to a) laugh out load and then b) cry when I realised she was being serious. The poor child will be ridiculed. I know it;s got nothing to do with me so of course I will keep it to myself but I'm seeking solace. Please tell me others have you DGC with horrendous names that you have either eventually warmed to or they have survived anyway!

kittylester Tue 22-Mar-16 07:06:10

You can't have my name correct Elrel. I am neither cute nor diminutive! grin

rosesarered Mon 21-Mar-16 22:41:30

nanato grin

maturefloosy Mon 21-Mar-16 21:14:07

grannylyn 65 love it!!- I agree with everyone who has said say nothing and you will grow to love the name as you love the child! - - They just are those names once they become little personalities - - even you grannylyn Thistlewood !! grin

Nanato2plus3 Mon 21-Mar-16 15:07:12

Oh - timely - my son decided to name his son after his 1/2 brother. The 1/2 brother who gave us the most nightmares when his mother dropped him on our doorstep when he was an unruly teen. Honestly - it was horrible - there was alcohol, sex, swearing, skipping school -all in a 3 bed apartment - and here was me pregnant with our third child at the time. He's alright now - but not quite there... now it's bigger things like DUIs. I honestly don't know what my son was thinking of. He was also "in danger of" being born on his 1/2 brother's birthday! They have doomed them both to being called "Big Ben" and "Little Ben" (ain't it great?) Ugh. I've grown to (sort of) accept it - I call him Benji - just to make it easier on me! I mean Benji was a cute puppy.

One of my steps had a son and called him Cash. Cash??!!! What does he envision his career is going to be? A used car salesman? I call him Buck.

Elrel Thu 17-Mar-16 00:42:10

Nansypansy - thank you ?
Kittylester - I think I've guessed your name too, one I've always liked, with a cute diminutive!

Marmight Wed 16-Mar-16 16:45:28

I love all my gc's names. They are all classical and all but one have 2nd/3rd names taken from their grandparents and great grandparents. One daughter went a bit whacky on a 2nd name for her DD. She loved the Celestine and the Elephant books - no, she isn't called Elephant wink

Dara Wed 16-Mar-16 16:01:43

I have one grandchild only! I like her name.

Nansypansy Wed 16-Mar-16 08:39:01

Well done Elrel!!! ..... You get the prize!

Katek Tue 15-Mar-16 11:14:47

I love all my dgc's names although dgd's name is often shortened which makes her sound like a boy! I also have a nephew called Sholto which we were all a little surprised about, but he couldn't be anything else now.

Skweek1 Tue 15-Mar-16 09:54:02

Not GC, but throughout pregnancy called my bumps by the worst name I could imagine. DD1 was Aloysius, DD2 Ignatius and son was George. Liked the names we did eventually give all 3, although I swore blind I was not having an "Andy" - wanted "Drew", but although some of his mates call him Andy (his choice!). To us he is either known by his family pet name or the full version. But his GGF was George, his great-uncle is George and his cousin is George, so we did not want to confuse the family issue. But GGF was so chuffed at yet another named after him that we didn't have the heart to disappoint him and as the last of my line, he has my maiden name as a 3rd monicker (misspelled, as it happens (DH was so excited that he had a momentary aberration!)) At the end of the day you may like to make suggestions (DD1 has a middle name that was suggested by my Brazilian adopted sister, especially as it is a rearrangement of her name), but don't be disappointed if the parents don't oblige. So long as Katy Hopkins doesn't interfere . . .!!!

Elrel Tue 15-Mar-16 00:01:39

Genevieve and Anastasia, Nansypansy?

phizz Mon 14-Mar-16 22:38:56

I wouldn't dare whisper what I think of my DGS name. Suffice it to say he answers to 'Sweetheart'.

Newquay Mon 14-Mar-16 16:04:54

Congratulations NonnaAnnie-hope he's near enough to have a cuddle?
Yes I am an Archers fan, sluttygran, thank goodness the child is fictional and I suppose those of childbearing age are hardly likely to be listening to the Archers I suppose to be influenced.
When oh when is that Rob going to get his come uppance?

Nansypansy Mon 14-Mar-16 07:30:11

My two eldest granddaughters have lovely names which were immediately shortened to Gen and Ana. Now they are 'young ladies' they sometimes find it convenient to use their full names which I will leave with you to work out!

Jalima Sun 13-Mar-16 23:20:36

Perhaps she even met her [youneverknow]

Maggiemaybe Sun 13-Mar-16 23:18:41

Perhaps she saw the play, or the film. smile

Ana Sun 13-Mar-16 21:33:32

grin

Iam64 Sun 13-Mar-16 21:21:49

Maybe she read it after 2005
Yours ever optimistically
Pollyanna

Jalima Sun 13-Mar-16 20:03:59

Whatever you name a baby girl, she may (or may not) change her name when she gets married and however careful you are, it could end up as a disaster!

Ana Sun 13-Mar-16 19:42:19

"I haven't read a book in my life," Beckham confesses. "I don't have the time." However, the 31-year-old former Spice Girl does shrug off suggestions that she is a philistine. "I prefer listening to music, although I do love fashion magazines." from a Guardian article back in 2005.

Whether it's true or not, it does explain why some were/are sceptical about her claim that To Kill a Mockingbird is her favourite book Iam64.

georgiejg Sun 13-Mar-16 19:37:05

I told my daughter you can't call a child born in Nov, Summer, baby agreed and arrived in September. I think it's important to look at the whole package surname plus initals.

Iam64 Sun 13-Mar-16 18:57:10

I read several articles in which VB said her daughter was named Harper because To Kill a Mockingbird was her (VB's) favourite book.

I find it fascinating that VB can do no right in the judgement of so many women. What is it about the successful mother of 4 that irritates so many that they say she's lying about the reason she chose her daughter's name. She and David are clearly loving parents, I wouldn't swop my life for hers for a gold clock frankly. Married to a man so many women (and men) would like to well, we all know what I mean. She works very hard, has four children with whom she seems to spend a lot of genuine time. I'm genuinely curious about why she creates so much antagonism.

annifrance Sun 13-Mar-16 18:53:50

DD and SiL called their daughter 'Twinkle' while she was a bump. One friend seriously asked me if that would be her name!!

NotTooOld Sun 13-Mar-16 17:47:00

Seven-o-clock. Bagatelle! grin

No, I can't believe Baby Beckham is named after Harper Lee either. As someone above remarked, Mum Beckham is reported to have said she does not read books.

Is Grandma Beckham on here? Perhaps she could tell us?

Jalima Sun 13-Mar-16 17:12:03

Veruca Salt from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (Roald Dahl) hmm