Please don't feel stressed about this. If you are doing your best to recycle anything, then you are doing better than most people.
It's more important for Millions of people to do some recycling than for a few to do it absolutely perfectly.
I try to do my bit. Sort household items, washed, into the council bins, reuse anything that's suitable eg screw top glass jars for food containers. I use a local "Zero waste" shop, just buying loose dry goods as needed.
I have four children which is good motivation to protect the planet, also encourage them to be green and recycle. The girls are great and pass on to me all their old clothes !!! which means that I never buy new "except undies!" Bless them.
If you have a garden, do make your own compost. It's fabulous, and ticks so many recycling boxes.
You can't do anything about other countries ethics so don't stress about America. Talk to other people about this! You do find that some have great new ideas and some do nothing but, talking about it may influence them. As I have said, don't stress about it and just do your bit.
Reduce. Reuse. Refuse. Recycle.
Anyone got any more Re suggestions.