I need a someone to tell me how ridiculous I am being. My DD and SiL have just lost out on a ‘dream home’ by a few thousand - all very complicated as not mortgageable/no land registry/sitting tenant plus we were putting in a substantial loan until they got the mortgage. So we were very invested in it too! They are gutted - they saw this as a new start for them and their relationship after a hard year(though I admit doing up an old property would not be my idea of improving a relationship esp with a 3 year old!) I am feeling ridiculously upset and devastated myself - almost like it is my loss and I just don’t know how to get rid of this feeling and don’t understand why I’m feeling it ! Please help me see sense!
How do I bring this issue up with our neighbours?
WORD PAIRS -APRIL 2026 (Old thread full )


