Looking for advice really as have had friends say totally oppossing things. I have a ground floor one bed in a 1930's conversion and my bed room is at the front. The upstairs is let. I am a joint freeholder with the landlord. I have a back garden, the front is mine and a small part communal, as in the landlord and I are jointly responsible for it. In reality I cut the hedge,clean the path and inside tiny communal area in to the house. I pointed this out to the tenants under lock down and with the strict COVID lock down rules over the year I was ok with them sitting out there if a friend visited. On a couple of occasion s there were about 6 people out there, which was a bit much as I never knew when and it is literally outside my window. Having lived here for many years tenants have not used the garden as they are not paying for a garden flat, so it's new to me and honestly it feels like an imposition. They are also youngsters so it feels like a student house share. I want a quiet life and so I am super accommodating and polite to all new tenants sometimes too blimmin accomodating even when water is pouring through my ceiling etc... Lockdown rules have relaxed and with the warmer weather just recently the sitting outside with chairs has started. Basically I want to tell them I would prefer it if they stopped with the gatherings, its imposing and I am not keen having a load of strangers in my garden. Don't want to come home and have to go through a parting of chairs and people to get to my own front door. Under COVID restrictions I wanted to be flexible but I don't want it to be the norm with summer approaching. What do I say in a nice way as not to ruin our relationship. Some say you can't meet indoors yet so I should let them use it, they want to meet friends and family etc... But their friend live near do go out for the day but then round it off by gathering in the garden. I don't want it to be the norm and it's time for me to nip it in the bud. Feel like a grump, but it is my home.