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Retired folk - how long do you spend on household chores?

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Revolucion Sun 13-Jun-21 11:52:25

Wondering how much time people who are retired generally spend on cleaning, cooking, laundry, food shopping and other household chores.
For me I think it’s about 12 hours a week as DH (who is still working) does some of the cooking, I guess another 3 hours or so.

How about you?

Witzend Mon 14-Jun-21 12:15:55

BBbevan ??

Witzend Mon 14-Jun-21 12:14:43

I have a Singaporean sister in law, who once came for lunch, bringing her own mother, who didn’t speak English.

However the first thing she asked (SiL translated) was, ‘How on earth do you manage without a maid??’
I said I wasn’t over fussy - unless anyone was coming.

So many Sinagaporeans have live-in maids - for some years my (non working) SiL had a nanny too. As I once said to her now grown up dd, ‘Your mum was so spoilt.’
She replied, ‘She still is!’

Happysexagenarian Mon 14-Jun-21 12:08:22

As little as possible! Perhaps an hour or two a week. DH does all the cooking, we order groceries and most shopping online. I do washing when I can't get any more in the laundry basket, and ironing when I need something to wear. I vacuum when dust bunnies start settling around the edges of rooms and damp dust as needed. The gardens get more attention than the house does! There are far more interesting things to do that cleaning.

Nanette1955 Mon 14-Jun-21 12:03:48

Maybe an hour a day, longer if I’m doing some cakes or batch cookiing. X

Quizzer Mon 14-Jun-21 11:59:30

Oh thank goodness I am not the only ‘lazy’ one.
One of my neighbours, who lives alone in a small 3 bed house spends 2 hours almost every day just cleaning. How does she get it that dirty?

Juicylucy Mon 14-Jun-21 11:59:15

3 hours a week… life is for living well that’s my motto.

BBbevan Mon 14-Jun-21 11:46:18

Best thing to do is plug the hoover in then read a book, or some such. If anyone visits you were just in the middle of hoovering. Simple. I have done this for years

BluePizzaWalking Mon 14-Jun-21 11:36:57

GillT57 has said it right, get your priorities sorted. If its sunny outside a walk or sitting in the garden is my priority, if weather is not so good a favourite TV programme or reading a book in a comfy chair is priority and spending fun time with grandson or being with friends is definitely a priority ? housework is to be done as quick as possible and fitted in when I am bored

inishowen Mon 14-Jun-21 11:32:41

As little as possible. I no longer iron since hubby retired and doesn't need pressed shirts. The dishwasher is loaded throughout the day and runs at night. Hoovering once a week. We don't have a pet so things stay quite clean. The rest I do when it looks like it needs it. I am very tidy so that helps.

Kali2 Mon 14-Jun-21 11:31:23

I shall always be beyond grateful to my MIL - who was quite a 'strong' woman and at times, unbearable ...

she worked full time, primary teacher than later her own fashion/tailoring shop and made made to measure clothes for the wealthy ladies in her area- and she taught the 3 children to cook, sew and iron, 1 girl and 2 boys. My husban does his own ironing- much to the absolute shock of our rural neighbours smile

henetha Mon 14-Jun-21 11:24:25

Housework? What's that?

icanhandthemback Mon 14-Jun-21 11:23:13

As little as possible most weeks and then about a week catching up if we are having visitors.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 14-Jun-21 11:21:19

I enjoy housework, but I have honestly never looked at the clock while doing it.

At a guess, I estimate that I spend half to three quarters of an hour after breakfast doing the washing up, which I only do once a day, attending to the cat's litter box and making our bed.

Once a fortningtI spend about five minutes dusting the bedroom and another ten minutes hoovering the upstairs . floors; Another day I do the downstairs floors and dusting.

Toilets, handwash-basin and bath cleaned when they need it. Floors likewise washed when their condition attracts my attention.

Household shopping: DH and I spend three hours shopping at the start of every month, buying the things that keep, like toilet paper, cat food, coffee etc. etc. Once or twice a week one of us nips up to a local shop on foot or bike for cream, yogurt etc.

Washing bunged into machine once or twice a fortnight as needed. Ironing max. half-an-hour weekly.

Shoes cleaned when they need it, overcoats washed or taken to dry cleaners once or twice yearly.

Max. five minutes a week emptying inside bins the day before the bin-men come and putting outside bin out onto the pavement. It takes all of 1 minute to bring it in again the next morning.

As little time as possible spent gardening which we both abhor. Lawns mown once a month from May to September, weeding restricted to half-an -hour daily when the vegetable patch needs it. Rest left to run wild. Attacked with seceuters now and then.

I think that's it.

But I do still clean thoroughly before Christmas and Easter, including cleaning windows, which otherwise get done when some dratted bird has soiled them!

Franbern Mon 14-Jun-21 07:16:10

My flat is easy to run, and with just me living here requires very little work. Occasional vacuum, floors mopped over. A quick occasional flick with a duster. Toilets cleaned most days.

Okay, once a week have the 'hard work' of putting everything into washing machine (sometimes two loads), taking them out and putting in tumble dryer. Hardest part is folding and putting away. Supermarket shop (I still prefer to do my own) once a week. Cooking for myself, washing up by hand (unless I have visitors), tidy bed daily. Need to water balcony pot plants most days. Wow!!! all of that must add up to about six hours each week,

BigBertha1 Mon 14-Jun-21 06:55:32

,Three or four hours a day. I have always cleaned a lot but its even more important now to keep the house dust free and surfaces clean and clutter free.

Katyj Mon 14-Jun-21 04:45:18

No sorry should have read worktops once a day, kitchen cupboards once a week.

nadateturbe Sun 13-Jun-21 23:31:20

Sorry should be Katyj

nadateturbe Sun 13-Jun-21 23:29:58

Karyj do you only clean your kitchen worktops once a week?

nadateturbe Sun 13-Jun-21 23:22:38

Callistemon

^We spend ahout 2 hrs every morning kitchen, bathroom, tidy l/room quick vac^

Do you live in a mansion?

grin Just as well I don't!

We don't do anything unnecessary.(I think)
Breakfast. Then I clean toilet and sink and tidy beds while husband fills dishwasher and wipes worktops. We spend ten mins brushing kitchen and vacuuming living room. Tidy papers cushions etc. Maybe its not two hours ? but the day seems to pass so quickly. Lunch and dishes. Couple of free hours and then time to make dinner. More dishes, pots. Laundry, ironing...always something needing done.
I would love more time and energy for the fun things like painting. Sorry I sound like a right moan but I do get tired. I love when we go to the caravan. We do very little there.

Revolucion Sun 13-Jun-21 23:04:49

Good to hear how many retired people are not so fussed about having high standards. On mumsnet I think people are generally less relaxed about this although obviously there is a range of attitudes in both forums.

Pittcity Sun 13-Jun-21 21:47:27

I press the button on the remote control of the robot hoover every now and again!!

Floradora9 Sun 13-Jun-21 21:24:36

We have a morning cleaning once a week DH does the hoovering which takes far less time than I take dusting and cleaning the bathrooms . When my children were school age I could spend whole afternoons baking and loved it now I do none. I will have to be really in a bad way before I get a cleaner again I hate a stranger working in my house .I quite enjoy ironing so it is no big chore and we have the odd ready meal but never a take away . Oh how I remember the nagging of teenagers to tidy their rooms .

Kiwigramz Sun 13-Jun-21 20:46:09

I Hoover up once a year whether it needs doing or not ?

Grammaretto Sun 13-Jun-21 20:43:38

I'm on my own & don't have people in very often. If I start the dishwasher and the washing machine. I feel as though I've done a good job.
I make my bed every day because it makes the rest of the room look tidy.
I could spend my life doing housework but why would I?

Witzend Sun 13-Jun-21 20:31:13

I’m another as little as possible.
I only wear glasses for reading so generally don’t see the dust. ?
Will have a bit of a blitz if guests are due though.

With the sun streaming in, I’ve noticed lately that the sitting room windows are in dire need of a good clean inside (window cleaner does the outside) so must prompt dh to play with the window cleaning gadget he bought about a year ago.