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Downsizing to an Apartment

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Peasblossom Mon 23-Aug-21 15:46:24

It might not be a problem for you.

Honestly, autocorrect!!!!

Peasblossom Mon 23-Aug-21 15:45:02

A decent sized balcony can be as useful and pleasant as a garden.

in recent years I’ve downsized to a small house by myself, moved again to a smaller one with a partner, put in an offer on an apartment which we would have moved to if it hadn’t fallen through and now ended up in a four bedroom. So I think I have some experience!

Before you even put the house on the market, see how much you can throw away. If either of you find it difficult to pare down then think again.

I had no trouble in fitting into my first little house. I got rid of almost everything and just bought what was necessary. No problem. I don’t feel any need for past stuff.

But it became apparent that my erstwhile partner couldn’t dispose of anything of his. In the two bedroom house we shared the second bedroom was solely his and packed to the gunnels. The living space was cramped with furniture he wanted to keep even though it was way too big. And he had to rent a storage unit for the stuff we couldn’t pack into the house. Hence the upsize to four bedrooms ?

But enough about me. It makes get not be a problem for you, but I do advise testing it out!

RomRoot Mon 23-Aug-21 15:32:33

We are downsizing, or planning to.
I don't think I could live in an apartment, there's something to be said to be able to sit in your garden.

Georgesgran Mon 23-Aug-21 15:32:09

Same here tanith. Not a gardener, but thankfully I can pay someone to do it for me.

OP without knowing the back story you don’t seem to be looking forward to this move? Perhaps circumstances/ill health are the reason, but you certainly sound uncertain about things? ‘Dealing with the constant presence of a partner’ would also suggest reluctance?

Must you downside to an apartment rather than a small house - even if that was only to offer a paved yard, but still somewhere to escape?

tanith Mon 23-Aug-21 15:22:50

I’ve thought about it many times but the thought of not being able to just walk out into my garden stops me every time.

Bakingmad0203 Mon 23-Aug-21 14:34:13

We are downsizing, and plan to move into an apartment. The apartments we have viewed have been very small with only 2 bedrooms, and an open plan kitchen, dining, living room area and a large balcony. No garage but an under croft parking space. I was wondering how Gransnetters with partners have coped with the limited space and what suggestions you have for managing storage and noise and the constant presence of a partner.