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ExDancer Fri 03-Sept-21 16:58:05

I always drive forwards into a supermarket car parking space. I tell people its so I can access the boot easily to stow my shopping, but the truth is I've lost the knack of reversing into a confined space. I find it perfectly simple to reverse out again.
Why (how) has this happened to me? Do I need lessons?

dolphindaisy Mon 06-Sept-21 19:34:56

I have a problem with parking! I aways drive into a parking space and when I am sitting in the car I'm SURE the car is straight but when I get out I inevitably find the car is at an angle. There then follows the pantomime of me getting back into the car and trying to straighten up. When I do back out of a parking space I go very very slowly while carefully looking all round, as others have said, trying to see past vans and large cars can be difficult.

Aldom Mon 06-Sept-21 19:07:08

Some years ago a man known to me accidentally knocked down and killed his wife while reversing to adjust his position in the parking space.

crazyH Mon 06-Sept-21 17:44:41

I always reverse into a parking space. But yes, accessing the boot is difficult, so I just put my shopping bags in the back seats. I live on my own, quite close to Tescos, so I very rarely have more than 3 carrier bags.

Helen657 Mon 06-Sept-21 17:32:53

I’ve always reverse parked (as instructed by my Dad many years ago!) unless I’m doing a big supermarket shop for easy boot access, and I love the reversing camera & sensors my 2 year old car has when I’m reversing out from between high vehicles as they alert me to pedestrians or cars about to pass. However, as others have said I do try to just use mirrors most of the time so that I don’t lose the skill!!! Until he got a car with cameras my husband used to jump out of the drivers seat in a car park and ask me to take over as he can’t park for toffee!!! He’s always strongly supported female drivers if colleagues ever said anything derogatory and openly tells them I’m a better driver and parker than him (gets him lots of gold stars off me, nearly enough to cancel the lead ones lol)

Whitewavemark2 Mon 06-Sept-21 08:33:49

Drive in for easy access to boot.

Reversing out never a problem, slowly and carefully does the job.

I do reverse park at most other times though. Just depends.

M0nica Mon 06-Sept-21 08:23:57

In a car park, you usually have to reverse in or out. The choice is up to you and people get knocked over, injured, or, in this case, killed by reversing cars, but I do think many people walking to and from their cars, with or without full trolleys also act in a way that threatens their own safety.

I am sure I am not the only one who has positioned themselves to reverse, only to have someone walking slowly down the car park suddenly speed up and nip behind me just as I start moving backwards, because they are afraid that if they do not they might have to wait as much as 30 seconds, while I complete the operation.

There seems, generally, a tendency to always blame the driver, never the pedestrian or cyclist, despite those same pedestrians and cyclists being just as capable of taking risks, making stupid decisions and taking dangerous actions.

TillyTrotter Mon 06-Sept-21 08:22:45

I do it, but don’t think I’m good at it. In fact I think my rear camera is not set right as I follow it - but when I get out of the car it is still a bit squiffy in the parking space ? ? ?

Esspee Mon 06-Sept-21 08:15:55

SueDonim is right to not want to lose the skill of reverse parking. Every car I have had has many more features than the previous one and as a result I would hate to have to cope without the front and back cameras, park assist, the current car will even read my email for me and it's four years old so goodness knows what the next one will be able to do.

V3ra Mon 06-Sept-21 07:29:25

Grannynannywanny that's awful, so sad.

Years ago I had just taken a child out of my trolley and was strapping them in their car seat.
Some dizzy woman, who I knew, reversed out of a space opposite, hit my trolley and sent it spinning across the car park.
I shouted angrily at her, she stuck her head out of the window and gaily called "Sorry!" back at me.
A few seconds earlier and the child would have still been in the trolley. So frightening.

Grannynannywanny Sun 05-Sept-21 23:27:09

An elderly woman died in our local supermarket car park a few years ago. She was struck by a car which reversed out just as she was passing it and the poor woman fell under it.

The driver’s excuse was that they didn’t see her due to large jeeps being parked either side of their car.

Silverbridge Sun 05-Sept-21 23:04:52

I have been reversing into supermarket spaces for 45 years. Either the trolley can be wheeled to the boot between two vehicles or I leave the trolley by the bonnet and carry the bags all of thirteen feet to the boot of my current car. It really isn't a problem.

It’s far easier to see to drive forward out of a space especially when the vehicles either side are high-sided as many are now nowadays. Parked between a couple of builders' vans, you’d have to reverse out blindly. You are dependent on other drivers seeing and stopping for you.

I have never seen a car park accident when someone has been driving forward out of a space but have witnessed many when someone has reversed out into another vehicle.

Furthermore, if the space between rows of cars isn't large it can take a driver several manouevres to reverse out and get the car into a forward position. That doesn’t happen if you reverse in and drive out. Much more efficient and safe especially at night as explained upthread.

M0nica Sun 05-Sept-21 22:45:32

As I said before Aveline that is supposing that your car has a big enough boot, my car has next to no boot space, so my shopping goes on the back seat. There are only two of us, so there isn't very much and it is not very heavy.

Aveline Sun 05-Sept-21 10:45:29

I always think it's daft to reverse into a parking space at a supermarket. It's so much easier to take the trolley to the boot to unload.
I can only parallel park if no one else is in the car. If DH is in the car I can't cope at all. He sort of growls. Tension in his throat and he doesn't mean to but..

mokryna Sun 05-Sept-21 08:53:02

I, more often than not reverse park, I find it more difficult not to because I am not used to forward parking. My friend avoids left hand reversing and will drive until she finds a suitable place because of it.

Pittcity Sat 04-Sept-21 09:23:38

DH likes to choose a space with an empty space in front. He drives forward into the second space and is reverse parked with no reversing. Great until someone parks behind and you can't get to the boot!

SueDonim Sat 04-Sept-21 00:00:15

The car I bought some years ago could park itself. It wasn’t a feature I’d ordered so I went back to the dealer to ask how it worked. They didn’t know, because they’d never seen one before! grin

My latest car (BMW) can park itself and get itself out again! Very clever! I mostly park it myself, though. I don’t want to lose that skill.

Grannynannywanny Fri 03-Sept-21 22:09:27

I have always reversed into parking spaces, I find it easier. Unless you have a very large car there is no need to reverse all the way back and there is still room to open the boot.

I had a courtesy car recently while my car was in the garage. It had a reversing camera and my brain just couldn’t use it properly. I gave up and stopped looking at it and thankfully no harm done.

Katyj Fri 03-Sept-21 21:37:43

I was beginning to think there was something wrong with my DH eyesight he’s 68 and for the last couple of years his parking is a nightmare, even if driving in it takes 3 attempts then he gets out and checks he’s in between the white lines ?

crazyH Fri 03-Sept-21 20:58:36

Reverse parking is my Forte - my only Forte

cornergran Fri 03-Sept-21 20:36:36

Drive through parking spaces are my ideal. If none available I’d rather reverse in than out, seems safer. We’ve recently changed our car and have a reversing camera. It helps hugely now I understand it. I’m happy reversing into a space, can cope with parallel parking if I really must. If anyone is really worried about reversing I’m sure an independent driving instructor would be prepared to offer a reversing refresher. Don’t forget men can have difficulties with it too.

grannyrebel7 Fri 03-Sept-21 20:11:46

I call these parking spaces straight throughers and I love them. I hate reverse parking between two cars. I'm always scared I'm going to damage one of them. Don't mind reversing out though.

MiniMoon Fri 03-Sept-21 19:54:08

I usually drive into a parking space, particularly if I need to open the boot. I never worry about reversing out. DH always reverses into a space!
Respect for this man in New York.
youtu.be/-GGfC5CA2M8

M0nica Fri 03-Sept-21 19:50:00

I almost always reverse into a parking space. Did a perfect, slow and careful backing into a space this morning at Waitrose.

I drive Toyota Yaris, so the boot isn't a problem. It is so small I find simpler and easier to put the shopping on the back seat. If I really do need to use it, the car is so short, I do not need to back in the full length of the space so can leave myself plenty of room to open the boot lid and look for the boot space.

Chewbacca Fri 03-Sept-21 19:22:24

Ditto Lucca! I used to live in a house that only had street parking and it was very much "first come, first served" as to whether you got a space or not. By the time I moved from there, I could reverse into a parallel parking space, between 2 cars, so well that I got a round of applause from the neighbours!

Callistemon Fri 03-Sept-21 19:18:17

You can't load the boot if you reverse in, Ex-Dancer! So carry on as you are, no need for excuses.

I am told I am a good driver but have always found reversing difficult, especially recently up a very narrow country lane with a sheer drop on one side and a wall on the other side.

Not one of the 6 or 7 drivers waiting to come up the lane thanked me for my efforts either.