After a difficult year of finding, then pulling out of buying a home together, followed by me selling mine and finding a downsized home to buy alone, then that falling through and now living with DP in his house (phew! All documented here somewhere!), myself and DP are now looking to buy a house together.
There’s very little on the market in the areas we want.
DP is early 60’s, I am late 50’s and we have both lived alone for a long time. We inevitably have different ideas and know it’s going to be a challenge to find something that we both love.
We both know we will have to make compromises.
Today we are looking at an old property. When we agreed to look I got quite excited, but the more I look at it online now, the less enthusiastic I am
DP however, is very enthusiastic!
Positives are
Lovely village
Character property
Big garden (This is high on the list of requirements for DP as he wants to grow apple trees for his cider business)
Downsides
Low ceilings
Lots of beams (I don’t mind beams but this has loads and looks as though it would be difficult to renovate)
Looks like the living area is very dark (my old house was dark and I found it depressing at times)
It doesn’t look like it will ‘flow’ well
I know it isn’t the best time to be looking and I am hoping the new year will be bring new properties on the market.
Watch this space…. It could be a long journey! 
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