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Messy House; Messy Life Thread ??

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henetha Sun 02-Jan-22 10:56:18

I've just looked around and tried to see this living room as others see it. The result is not good! It's messy. It has improved slightly since I bought a sideboard to replace the shelving, so at least some of the mess is hidden now.

catnip Sun 02-Jan-22 10:52:36

I would like to join in! I have just downloaded yet another kindle book on cleaning/de-cluttering). I live alone in a small bungalow, have always been untidy, but when it reaches a state of chaos, I'm aware that outer chaos= inner mess as well.
Hoping for a less messy new year, so all ideas for change are very welcome.

Hetty58 Sun 02-Jan-22 10:43:55

I won't! In fact, I disagree. If you enjoy tidying, cleaning and organising, do go ahead. It can be therapeutic. Still, I simply can't relax in a tidy room.

Having been brought up by a mad woman with OCD, I've heard all about it. A few crumbs on a carpet would send her into meltdown. The pristine state of the house was a reflection of her mental turmoil. (Chaos didn't cause it.)

She'd mop the kitchen floor and shine the sink several times a day - or she didn't 'feel right' - really sad.

Now, on the odd occasion when I do thoroughly clean a room, I have to 'untidy' part of it - to make it look lived in and cosy.

That pile of books and cushions on the floor, or the throw just slung on a chair - are deliberately done.

A tidy freak friend bought me a knitting bag, as my knitting is always on the end of a sofa - so I can just pick it up when I fancy a little relaxing knit.

Dammit, I'll have to dig out some old, abandoned project to stuff in there, before she visits again!

FannyCornforth Sun 02-Jan-22 09:50:46

Hello folks ?

I recently mentioned on another thread that my bedroom, and indeed my whole house, isn’t in the most satisfactory of states.

I also think that my messy house is having a knock on effect on all sorts of stuff in my life.

I received a few lovely pm’s from posters saying that they are in a similar situation.

So if you feel like a chat about your messy house / life; please do!

Hopefully we can sort; chuck; organise; tidy; and clean together.

Bin bags at the ready! x