Just been talking about this with a friend. She was fondly remembering the big sofa that originated in her grandparents house and ended up in her childhood home, and I was recalling the piano in our dining room that we inherited when mum's cousin, a music teacher, married an Australian in the 60s and moved to Sydney which might as well have been Mars in those days.
My friend also has a small chest of drawers in her bedroom that her parents bought second hand and brought home on the bus shortly after they were married. We have a many times re-covered chair that originated in my great grandmother's parlour.
Those kind of layers of connection and family memories to be missing from a lot of today's smart and chic homes. To me that makes them lacking in warmth and comfort.
What sort of family would you not want to marry into?
"Old fashioned" expressions that young people have never heard.


