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Mortgage at 72 - is this possible?

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lejaye Mon 29-May-23 13:01:39

I've been trying to find out. I've googled but mostly it's about remortgaging, equity release and so on.

My situation is that I very gratefully moved into social housing a few years ago from a horrendous privately rented situation. This house is fine and I really am so grateful to have it. However the neighbours and the area are not so fine. One neighbour is perfectly pleasant to talk to but her house is frequently full of her noisy druggie friends, she freely tells me all about it as she says, I'm not judgmental. She also has a lot of pets and her garden is full of dog dirt. She has mental health problems so I do my best to be a good neighbour. On the other side they are also friendly but the garden and communal parking area is full of old cars, bits of cars etc. I usually park on the road as there's no space. They never work on the cars though, they're just dumped. I try to be a good neighbour too, caring for pets when they're away etc.

However I have now come into around £70k from a legacy and would like to move nearer to my daughter to help with the family while she works. I'm very fit and well. I've looked into exchanges but I don't think this would work out any better and there's nothing much in the private rental sector - also I have a dog. So I wondered if, getting a mortgage for say £50k would be possible, I could then get a small terrace nearer my daughter. While good neighbours can't be guaranteed, I would at least have the freedom to grow a tall hedge/fence for privacy which I can't now for example. A do-er upper would be great, my builder son in law could do structural stuff and my daughter and I decorating. I'm also hugely tempted by tiny houses but finding land to site one on is problematic.

As well as state pension I have small work pension and 2 part time jobs which I would be able to continue if I move. After tax, maybe £20k pa. Not first time mortgage, I last had one over 25 years ago with my ex husand.

Can anyone advise please? Thank you.

Norah Wed 31-May-23 12:22:34

Katie59

Norah

lejaye ^Tiny houses/homes are like these www.tinyecohomesuk.com - but prettier ones exist. There's quite an active tiny homes movement internationally.

Gracious, lovely and modern!

Much nicer than writing from my chair in an old stone farmhouse (which has served all generations prior to mine).

We were looking for holiday apartments in Florida and we came across Tiny Apartments, they were converted shipping containers - we looked elsewhere.

One of our favourite ski slopes has a collection of tiny homes built of old shipping containers. Stunning - high in the mountains.

Economical use and recycle.

Katie59 Wed 31-May-23 08:50:22

Norah

lejaye ^Tiny houses/homes are like these www.tinyecohomesuk.com - but prettier ones exist. There's quite an active tiny homes movement internationally.

Gracious, lovely and modern!

Much nicer than writing from my chair in an old stone farmhouse (which has served all generations prior to mine).

We were looking for holiday apartments in Florida and we came across Tiny Apartments, they were converted shipping containers - we looked elsewhere.

hereshoping Wed 31-May-23 08:25:49

My in-laws took out a mortgage after retirement, can't remember how old they were but about 70.
My husband had to stand surety on the loan.

M0nica Wed 31-May-23 08:18:51

Never seen it written down before, so I spelt it phonetically.

Norah Tue 30-May-23 22:21:11

lejaye ^Tiny houses/homes are like these www.tinyecohomesuk.com - but prettier ones exist. There's quite an active tiny homes movement internationally.

Gracious, lovely and modern!

Much nicer than writing from my chair in an old stone farmhouse (which has served all generations prior to mine).

Norah Tue 30-May-23 22:14:37

Germanshepherdsmum

Segue.

Thank you for working that out, I was lost!

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 30-May-23 21:42:57

Segue.

M0nica Tue 30-May-23 21:35:12

lejaye you will find, if you stay with GN, and I do hope you do, that once you have launched a thread, you have lost all control of it, and while you may have got all the information you want from the thread, oher people will still continue to discuss the problem you asked, or it may just turn a corner and segway into an entirely different diccussion about retirement flats, or down sizing.

Threads are like children, you do your best, but how they turn out is highly variable.

lejaye Tue 30-May-23 20:56:06

Gosh even more messages. Thank you so much everyone, I'm quite overwhelmed. Tiny houses/homes are like these www.tinyecohomesuk.com - but prettier ones exist. There's quite an active tiny homes movement internationally. Secondly, we looked into getting a buy to let mortgage but were advised in no uncertain terms that letting to close relatives was not allowed. Too much of a risk of nonpayment of rent followed by defaulting on mortgage. There may be ways round it which we will look into further if we find a suitable property. Lord knows how anyone would know but still. Shared ownership (there's a special version of this for older people) is a possibility though mostly new builds and I really am not a fan but it's still on the list, and I've already looked into a swop but there's nothing nice. This house also has a very strict residential requirement which will restrict suitable tenants hugely.

Although I'll be careful about neighbours, nice ones can still move out but in my own home I can at least build a hedge or fence! Thanks for the sympathy by the way I was concerned I might sound a bit snobby. This has all crystalised my thinking so I'm going to start looking into these options more seriously. Either that or I might blow the lot on a toy boy. If I could be bothered. Thanks all

LJ

Bluedaisy Tue 30-May-23 18:05:06

Another alternative if your daughters garden is big enough might be a small granny annexe built at the end of her garden or even a secondhand mobile home put in it maybe?

Hellogirl1 Tue 30-May-23 17:53:48

Forgive my ignorance, but what are tiny houses, exactly?

albertina Tue 30-May-23 17:41:32

I can't advise, but I wish you the very best in your endeavours.

Katie59 Tue 30-May-23 17:09:54

I would have thought a social housing swap should be your first choice, a mortgage will depend on what income you have repay, at 72 what pension do you have to fund the repayments.

cc Tue 30-May-23 15:44:06

Have you looked into Housing Association's or shared ownership?

Sofa Tue 30-May-23 15:23:07

After deciding to move house to live nearer to my children, I took out a 10 year repayment mortgage when I was 66. I visited a mortgage broker and it was very straightforward. Incidentally I had not had a mortgage for several years previously.

Oreo Tue 30-May-23 14:33:13

Good luck with this.
I live in a small old terraced house ( not social housing) but there are still a few neighbours in the street who neglect the garden and leave bins out front and let dogs foul the pavement as well as a couple of shall we say odd people.You can get neighbours like that in a lot of places.
Have a good look round the street you want to buy on for a while to be sure you’ll have ‘normal’ neighbours before you buy.

pinkjj27 Tue 30-May-23 13:59:13

Have you thought about a council house swap? If you have a house would you consider a flat ? People would take your hand off, my friend swapped her two-bed house a rough area for a one bed house lovely place on the IOW. They people she swapped with didn’t like the quiet snobby area and they wanted to be near the hospital and not pay the ferry every day. It is just a thought. I do not know anything about mortgaging at an older age. My FIL took out a mortgage when he was older, but his son was some how involved.

SporeRB Tue 30-May-23 13:28:44

I kind of agree with others. An interest only buy to let mortgage with your daughter being your landlord is your best option. A mortgage broker can help her get the best deal.

My daughter and her partner have their offer accepted on a lovely house in nearby village. The lady selling the house is moving into a park home. The housing market where they live is moving so fast, houses sold within one to two weeks of going on the market.

Best of luck with the move.

Nanatoone Tue 30-May-23 13:25:45

What about a 50/50 home with half ownership? My son in law did this on his flat and it worked out very well. He had to pay some rent but has security of tenure. Lots of ideas here, good luck and just do it, it will work out well. My favourite is the one where your daughter buys a house with the legacy and you pay rent equivalent to the mortgage.

Juicylucy Tue 30-May-23 12:32:08

Had friend in similar situation who was advised to get bank loan as opposed to mortgage. Good luck with the move.

Norah Tue 30-May-23 11:23:46

PamelaJ1

Could your daughter get a buy to let mortgage? You give her the £70k she buys the property and you live in it, pay her rent to cover the mortgage and undertake to pay for repairs etc.
I do know someone who has done this.

A buy to let mortgage could work quite well for your daughter, with your legacy as deposit. Family financing is very effective.

PamelaJ1 Tue 30-May-23 09:14:22

SorryRetread just read your post. I’m sorry if it looks like I copied you.

PamelaJ1 Tue 30-May-23 09:12:48

Could your daughter get a buy to let mortgage? You give her the £70k she buys the property and you live in it, pay her rent to cover the mortgage and undertake to pay for repairs etc.
I do know someone who has done this.

M0nica Mon 29-May-23 22:09:55

We are fortunate that the amount we borrowed was less than 10% of the value of the house, so there will be more than enough capital in the house for our family.or care, when we go.

What we did not want was the build up of interest than can eat into your capital if you roll the interest up as you can with equity release. Fortunately we both have occupational pensions, so the interesr payment is well within our means, even if the amount we pay doubles at the end of next year after the three year fixed rate expires.

tickingbird Mon 29-May-23 18:57:51

Monica

Yes you’re right. My friend did look into a RIO mortgage too and was accepted in principal but then decided to go for a repayment as she wanted something to leave her children. I hadn’t heard of them until she told me and I think they’re a great idea.