Hi there, I have relocated to another part of the country after being in a very toxic relationship. My family hated my partner but somehow I was trauma bonded to him. I won't go in to detail but the last time he had a go at me physically and mentally I suddenly hated him so much (I previously had accepted the roller coaster relationship and stayed as I thought I loved him.... I know... totally crazy) and I left. This behaviour of love and hate from him had been going on for over a year. Now I'm in a beautiful part of the country in a lovely house however a week after moving I have become so exhausted. I ache from head to foot and am so tired. Do you think this is normal? I have family support and feel safer than I have ever felt. I suppose I want reassurance... I really feel battle weary and really want to get on with a peaceful life... so now why so tired. Any suggestions on how to regain my strength would be so welcome. TIA. x
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