One warning, do not take on a do-upper, other than decorating and having a new kitchen fitted, unless you have some level of manual skill and 'feel' for DIY
We are now both aged both in age and experience of doing houses up. But what has made it possible for us is that, I swear, DH was born with a scredriver in his hand. He did his first DIY job at 14, one day when his parents were out, he decided to remove the bricked in copper in the kitchen that is mother swore at regularly. He did it, quite successfully, although closing doors and dustsheets wee perhaps a bit beyond a 14 year old. He also trained as an engineer when he left school.
However it meant when we took on our first doer-upper, we had a head start. DD is the clone of her father and she is about to buy her 3rd project, but again she has the knack and an instinctive eye for the job - and they both research every job they do to make sure it is safe and that their work meets all the standards required for electrics, heating, plumbing etc. They would never accidentally demolish a supporting wall, for example, and they know when to get tradesmen in.
We did not look to our parents for advice. Neither set had any experience of DIY. However DH and DD are already in cahoots over her next project.