I am so sorry I didn't check back to see the last few messages but thank you all for the pointers.
Updating to say that I have managed to find a local lady from our community group who seems to be a good fit and I am awaiting references.
She has agreed to come fortnightly and is happy for me to give her a list of tasks, in order of priority, on the day and she will get through as much as she can. She is also happy for me to be at home when she cleans - I'll leave her to it of course.
It's sounding positive so far so fingers crossed.
It will be a great help and I have listed the sort of jobs I can no longer manage.
Thanks again to those who posted.
Hotel etiquette - has it been forgotten?


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