As we go through life our needs change so you start in a bedsit with a couple of small pans, have a family and need the large pans and then they grow up and you dont need the big pans any more. So we do swaps, when I needed larger pans, my mum and dad were moving to live in a bungalow, so we literally swapped pans. Great ,suited what we needed at no cost at all. I have a big hi dome pressure cooker , which I bought for £5 in a car boot , but we sailed and camped and it was brilliant for sailing. We used to use bungee cords to keep the pan on the stove and on gimballs. But it was so good as once it was pressured up, it wouldnt spill or burn anyone, and it used less fuel and kept food warm too. So I dont want to get rid of it, especially if we end up with power cuts etc as my flat is all electric now, not my choice, so I like to have belt and braces and having a camping stove gas, means that any electric cut off due to the power cuts or floods . I also have a garage here that my car would not go into, so it is fine for things like the pressure cooker and any other large things that I rarely use but do occasionally need. I make sure that it is all clean, and all these larger things are lined up by the wall and easy to see. Clothes - of course we have had that weather lately where you can go from freezing to quite warm and need to have a thin cotton top but a thick jumper on top. Well now we are into winter, so at the moment pretty much everything is now washed and clean. So when my back will allow and when I am in the mood I go through the clothes. Summer things that I know I shall need are packed in plastic bags and mostly stored in drawers under the bed, or some of the summer jumpers are stashed in a suitcase. Winter things , I know the things that I will definitely be wearing, they get ironed and hung in the wardrobe. anything that I havent worn for a long time, or never choose as it is not as comfortable as other clothes, these are washed , checked for buttons etc and then good stuff is given to the charity shops, but first there will be one or two things that a friend has admired and I ask them if they would like them . Another thing we have done in our womens group after christmas is to agree to a middle of january meeting where we bring clothes (clean and washed of course) and we just put them on the tables and anyone can look and see if it is something they can use. Everyone gets to look through and if they can make use of them they have them for nothing, Anything left that doesnt fit, the owner is asked if they want them back or we give them to the charity shop. So you get space , know that things are being reused etc. I am not good at throwing things out - especially books - but I would hate anyone to just go through my things and throw things out without my sayso. My husband was a good thrower out! So we devised a good way. When he felt in the mood , he would attack a drawer or cupboard, and then all the things that he was happy to get rid of, he then put on a tray or on the table, so that I could go through it all. For the majority of stuff I was happy for it to go, but there would be little bits, "No dont throw that away , it is the thingamabob for the hoover or iron" So then end result was great , a tidied drawer or whatever, but my stress level not raised by worrying what have gone without my knowledge. Very occasionally I would be in the mood for sorting so my way say with clothes t shirts etc. I would tip all the whole lot onto the bed, Then , the easy ones were the ones that I was using a lot , so they went back into the drawer, then it was trying some on, and look in the mirror, So there would be the immediate "no way" why did I keep it and out it goes, good ones to the charity shop and old ones go into the ragbag where they collect material by the weight. By that time I would have had enough, i have learnt over the years, to accept when I have had enough, and not let the guilt trip that my mother was good at causing was allowed to happen, So I do as much as I am able and then stop. Dont force myself to do a whole cupboard. Before you actually start to clear stuff another thing you might do is to have a pen and paper, go round the room , say the kitchen, and look at items and decide whether you use them regularly and tehy need to be in pole position or something that is kept for when the whole family descend on you What ever you do, with 2 little bits or a whole drawer, reward yourself with something, could be a sweet, a cup of tea, or whatever. When I struggled with a large job I carried on because then went to local chinese takeaway and got something that I did not want to make and could sit and watch tv.