Very trivial questions

Nothing in the loft here either, though I can go up the ladder if I need to,

Thinking about the things you need to ‘place’, I have been known to put such things on the floor in a doorway. Having them inconveniently in the way does concentrate the mind!

I’m afraid that my ex built a proper staircase into the loft which means it’s crammed full of homeless stuff. There’s no way that I could use a loft ladder. When we did have one years ago I can remember being able to go up into the loft but froze when it came to coming back down again. Re the OP might it be worth taking photos of the homeless items in places where you’re thinking of putting them which might give you an idea as to whether they go there or not. I’m curious (well, nosey) to know whether they’re large or small items

I made a deal with S2 that I would go away for the weekend if he would empty the loft of every single item and get rid of it all without me seeing anything. I knew it was full but hadn't been up there for 12 years. All went smoothly and I only hankered after two items since. One I replaced and the other (a beautiful rocking horse) was irreplaceable but....my mature lads had told me they weren't having childten. Huh!

Do be careful midgey. There have been a couple of awful accounts here lately about broken bones leading to dreadful outcomes. I have a window cleaner but also a window cleaning thingy on a long telescopic pole. Clean windows aren’t worth risking your life for.

In November we had a massive roof leak that signalled the need for a new roof. The roofer-man suggested we also increase the loft insulation from almost zero to the recommended height so we had to clear out all the stuff. DH insisted there "wasn't much up there" but I stuck my head through the hatch (always left the loft to him but now he isn't capable) and was appalled to see it all.

Had to get DSiL to empty it all and it took 3 weeks to get it all to the tip. NOTHING was worth saving. All went to recycling.

Re your remodelled bedroom, it wouldn't happen with me. I would know where it was all to go, using a plan on my computer.

My daughter has banned me from climbing ladders. I clean the windows when she’s not looking! Don’t keep things in the loft it not worth the worry later.

Are they "stuff" or furniture?
I usually make a scale drawing for furniture and move little "blocks" about on paper first.

If it's "stuff" I'd keep testing it in different places over a few days.
I'm a leave it here and then leave it there person.

My husband (75) added to our loft insulation last year and cleared the last few items up there so will not be going back!

I’d suggest that if you haven’t used it or thought about it for years you really don’t need it, so get rid or find a more easily accessible home for it.

We have a loft ladder. I am 80 and still can get into the loft. However, having learnt the lesson of moving and having a loft full of ‘stuff’. We now have a lovely completely empty loft .

That reminds me - I need to go the loft but I shall do that with the help of my grandson. I just need to see what’s up there and get rid of stuff. I don’t want to leave all the work for the AC.

When we had our roof completely replaced, my DH absolutely refused to let me store anything back in the roof space, which had been jammed with boxes, some from when I moved here 40 years ago. Ditto our cellar. I think perhaps he had the right idea as we'd like to downsize now and I have so much stuff!!

I too like the inventory idea.

Whiff I couldnt part with things in a box unopened! How brave.

Devorgilla

I can, at 81, still get into the loft to go through things but I only do it now when the AC are here. My husband hasn't been able to go in for about four years. We have, almost, finished going through the stuff we brought with us when we moved that we didn't really need. Now, most of the boxes contain 'family heirlooms' of no great monetary value, that the AC may want for sentimental reasons. I have done an inventory of these as I go along outlining where, and from whom, we inherited them.

What a brilliant idea, to do an inventory. When my parents died, I was left a load of stuff, some quite valuable, some just attractive to keep. Unfortunately, I had nothing to tell me where they had come from, which rather took the shine off things.

I can, at 81, still get into the loft to go through things but I only do it now when the AC are here. My husband hasn't been able to go in for about four years. We have, almost, finished going through the stuff we brought with us when we moved that we didn't really need. Now, most of the boxes contain 'family heirlooms' of no great monetary value, that the AC may want for sentimental reasons. I have done an inventory of these as I go along outlining where, and from whom, we inherited them.

fancythat when I moved to here in 2019. Had massive declutter of my old house 2018 and things that where in the loft that had been in there since my husband died in 2004. And I didn't know what was in them went straight to the charity unopened . The children's cuddly toys had to be thrown out as they had gone funny . Any toys and books they wanted for future children they took the rest went to charity. I even sent my wedding dress and veil to charity. I found decluttering decluttered my mind as well as my home . And got rid of things I had held on to for far to long . I moved from a large 3 bed semi to a 2 bed bungalow but my rooms aren't small.

I vowed never to have anything put into the loft in my bungalow. And it is still empty now. When I unpacked found I had brought things I didn't need or want . I like my home without any clutter and everything has it's place and put back in the place it came from otherwise I lose things because I forget where I put them .

I had a declutter last week as I have things I can no longer use due to lack of strength in my hands and arms . Including plastic containers that clip round the side . So brought ones from M&S that have easy seal and a chunky handle you just lift up and down and enamel baking dishes from Amazon. My daughter took all the plastic containers and stoneware to use .
I decide where things are going as soon as I get it as I don't faff about . It's how my mind works . Plus being disabled I need to have order it's how my life works.

Each time I have redecorated a room, I have not put back certain things. Some have been given to charity eg BHF, others have gone to the tip. Or are still in the garage. What has gone back is in its permanent place. One exception is a cushion I intend to recover. It has been lying around so long that I don’t notice it any more. I’d better put it on my To Do list.

I have a good sturdy ladder and a light switch at the top butI never go up into the loft unless someone is at the foot of the ladder, to help bring stuff down. It is not worth risking. If one of the grandchildren ( aged 17-22) comes, they will go up.

I probably could get up into the loft, but it would be my luck that I couldn't get down again.

Sometimes you have to be sure you've really, really thought things through

Thank you for these answers.
They are going to be very helpful.

I would like to give my bedroom a complete makeover, but there are things I’m sentimentally attached to that it would take much heart searching to part with and in the new scheme there would be no room for them. It has to happen though. As for the loft, I have been strictly forbidden to go up there unless there is someone else on hand and even then they aren’t keen to let me do it. My teenage grandson, however, loves to go into the loft and he rummages about while I shout instructions from the bottom of the ladder! Problem is, he gets sidetracked by all the stuff from his rapidly disappearing childhood that I am still housing. “Ooh, Nan! Can I bring this down?” “No - it’ll never go back up again!”

Move them to a different room. Admittedly this only postpones the ultimate problem of what to do with them, but it does make the bedroom a finished unit, and means it is more likely (though not absolutely certain) that it will stay that way while you sort out other rooms.

Eventually you will have moved those 4 items, plus any more homeless ones from other rooms, all around the house into and out of every room. You will then have to face whether to alter them somehow to suit one of the rooms you rejected them for, take them to a charity shop, hide them in a cupboard, or throw them out.

A radical alternative would be to buy a bigger house, and design a room where they will blend in with their surroundings.

Good luck.

Totally agree pascal, except perhaps Christmas decorations.

I'd take them downstairs and dispose of them whilst you have the energy. Anything that could go in a a loft isn't really needed in my house.

1 - I don’t leave anything lying around. I like everything in its place so in your position I would assign these things a place now and you can always move them if you decide they would be better somewhere else.

2 - I am very lucky to have my loft level with the landing, just like another room, boarded and insulated but not plastered. I have always been afraid of ladders so if it were a traditional loft I would just never go there. I do, however, keep as little as possible in the loft. I always think ‘out of sight, out of mind’ which doesn’t suit me. My husband would shove everything in there if he could!

That should be fitish lol

Regarding your loft, empty it now while you are able. I’m still able to get in my loft and have slowly brought almost everything down in preparation to move but my family have banned me from getting up there and I know they are right it’ll just be my luck to fall and break something so my Gs are going to finish the job..
Do get it done sooner rather than later I’m 76 and finish 😂