Yes, photo-sorting was the hardest for me too. I was not widowed when I decided to tackle them. A pile for each person and that included my 6 siblings, packed into big named envelopes and given to each of them. Immediately a weight was lifted, no longer my problem
The other photos, my late husband scanned each and every one of them and my AC each have a copy and so do I. Also includes precious photos that I put into their envelopes. My conscience is clear, my mind is clear and a weight was lifted
I also did family books, photos with explanations via a site called burble. I bought each book for the AC and siblings bought what they wanted. Another thing ticked off and believe me, it really does lift that overhanging weight
I have decided now to just concentrate on clearing this and that from my home. Cookery books are an example Delia Smith `frugal food` has been parked in my shredding area for a long time and today I turned it into food for my compositing worms
The garden is another area and this year I reached the end point of me having to water pots and containers. The begonias are frugal with water, squashes, marigold are certainly greedy for water and I can buy the most delicious tomatoes ever, not ever again will I be tempted to grow squash, tomatoes or anything apart from begonias in my troughs. I have tiered troughs and begonias will reside nicely in them
As soon as the butternut squash has ripened, my two remaining metal vegtrugs will be emptied and dismantled and I will be growing easy, wonderful figs along that sunny hot wall instead. I can stand their manageable pots in long trays and just pour water into those trays
I saw part of an architects programme earlier, what he said made sense, ie to work from inside the space I have