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HOUSES THAT ARE UNTOUCHED FOR DECADES

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CariadAgain Wed 11-Jun-25 05:35:05

As many of us do - I still check out properties for sale - even though I bought my current one a few years back and have no intention of moving.

When I bought mine (ie a 1970s bungalow) I had darn nearly everything ripped out. It really needed work - and all that's left is I kept the windows (as they were upvc), kept the internal doors and most of the skirting boards. Everything else got ripped out from both the house itself and garden.

Mine really needed it - poorly-planned 1980s kitchen, tatty 1970s bathroom, etc. All that - despite the fact there's been two owners in between the first owner and myself and the last owner did buy it this century.

Anyways - at long last it's done now - new kitchen, new bathroom, new floor coverings throughout, garden gutted and turned into my style, new decor throughout (had to be replastered before that could be done), all exterior doors changed, etc.

I still struggle with just why, in particular, the house still had a 1970s bathroom - despite those owners no 2 and no 3 since then and it was one that didn't even work well (high bath, trickling little shower, 1970s wall fire!!).

Since then - I've seen someone I used to know sell her house here and buy a 1960s bungalow here and do absolutely nothing to it (not even changing the 1970s carpets and having it decorated) - despite the fact she would have had quite a bit of leftover money from selling her last house. Me - I was walking through her "new to her" house when she moved in enthusiastically making suggestions for what a new kitchen/new bathroom could be like (yep...the house needed that) and defo taking it for granted she'd change the old 1970s/1980s carpets throughout and decorate at least (it needed it).

I was also very surprised to see that a neighbour bought an adjacent house and she would have had quite a bit of money over from her (noticeably dearer) last house and yet all she's had done was there was a painter in for a couple of days and so I think she's probably just had one or two rooms painted. She didn't even bring her own furniture with her when she moved - and is just using the previous owners furniture.

Looking at houses for sale (specifically bungalows - as that's what I bought - and I'm seeing 1980s or maybe even 1970s kitchen after kitchen/bathroom after bathroom. 1970s/1980s carpets). Cue for me thinking "It's obviously a probate house - and nothing much looks like it's been done since the 1970s/1980s. Have they had that house for 40-50 years personally that they don't seem to have done anything much to it? But it appears they must have bought it more recently than that and that means they're living with stuff from a previous owner a couple of buyers ago by the look of it?

That puzzles me personally - ie to move into a house that's basically not been touched for 40-50 years and do nothing at all (even though some of them will certainly have the money to do so). I would understand if they didn't have the money to do the work - but it often looks as if they did.

Very puzzling to use someone else's old furniture - I'd be wondering what the heck might have happened over the decades to the sofa I wanted to sit on and could be "harbouring" all seats of spills/dog hairs/etc.

Thankfully I have got the renovation work on this house finished before feeling I'd run out of energy to chase the "manana and unreliable" workmen this area seems to specialise in.....and so I can 'put my feet up' and just keep it up from here onwards.

The thing that surprised me most with my own current house is that owners no. 2 and no. 3 had obviously both kept the tatty old Rayburn, hybrid central heating set-up and oil tank in the garden that owner no. 1 wanted. I came in and thought "I wouldnt even know how to work that stuff" and out it came and I've got a normal gas central heating system and the Rayburn got taken out.

Certainly what puzzles me most is even living with a previous owners furniture....but I see it happening...

Cabbie21 Thu 12-Jun-25 17:59:48

When we bought this house we did as much as we could afford before we moved in ( new boiler, moved / replaced some radiators, new kitchen), then gradually updated other areas to some extent over the next couple of years. From then on the house was more and more full of DH’s stuff, so no more decorating was done. Since he died I have been gradually clearing one room at a time, getting it redecorated, new flooring etc. So far I have not bought any new furniture except for the garden room, but I have got rid of a lot.

My main aim is to make it easy to keep clean and tidy and suitable for older age.
I don’t care if it starts to look dated as long as the important areas function properly and it suits my needs. Its location is perfect for me. Whoever buys it next will do whatever they want and why should I care then?
But reading this thread has given me some ideas of some changes I would like to make- that is, if I can find anyone to do the work. Easier said than done.

Kathmaggie Thu 12-Jun-25 18:21:08

As long as the house is structurally sound surely that is the main issue. Our priorities are all different. I plan to put my house on the market early next year and I’m sure viewers will feel it’s certainly an older ladies home. Whilst I am a little house proud ( like to be tidy) I’m aware my furniture and decor is not very up to date. Friends come to see me not my house and I don’t spend money just to keep up with latest trends.

Chazz01 Thu 12-Jun-25 18:39:35

We bought a very rural, derelict stone-built cottage with a couple of acres back in 1974. I did a lot of research on insulating & heating and how it could be integrated into a traditional rebuild. A 1930s book on how to build a proper house was used wisely.
Bit by bit, a wall at a time, the solid walls were replaced with solid block inside, 6in solid insulation slabs, and a random stone facing, around 2ft thick all told. Floors were insulated with real ceramic end-of-line discounted tiles, some floors with old-as-the-hills s/h Axminster or Wilton carpets, that the likes of CariadAgain would have thrown out and replaced with modern synthetic junk. Real wood windows were double-glazed, and all the plumbing and electrical work was hidden in the walls.
Not a single steel fastening anywhere to be found, even the slates are fixed with pPh/Br nails.
We now have a very traditional-looking and very solid stone-built cottage with a real reclaimed graded slate roof that gives us cosy security against these wild weather times.
Pitch pine beams throughout came s/h from a Manchester mill, farmhouse finish internal plastering painted white silk, and a reclaimed stone-built inglenook multifuel lounge fireplace.
Traditional solid craftsman furniture was inherited or from auctions, presumably again the likes of CariadAgain would have cast out or burned and replaced with Ikea.
I thank the Lord that there are people like CariadAgain who throw out irreplaceable quality, only to spend their money on substitute factory fabricated modernity.

Madmeg Thu 12-Jun-25 18:41:58

Our house is a mix of stuff, no particular plan at all.

Th dining room has Nathan cupboards, table and chairs and a relatively new carpet (probably 15 years old now), We also have Nathan cupboards in the lounge, a stone fireplace with nooks, and two "new" G-plan settees, all recliners.

The three main bedrooms have fitted wardrobes for maximum storage with another with stand-alone robes/drawers. DD's study is a mix of white melamine cupboards/drawers that we bought in the 1970s, and bright green carpet tiles (don't ask!). The kitchen is "new" (abt 8 years) and very practical. The breakfast room that it opens to has a table/chairs that we bought new abt 40 years ago, with a plastic tablecloth from Dunelm that they no longer stock. Oh, and a wall shelf that DH made in Woodwork at school (he's 78!). My study has copious storage that suits us well.

I don't really care about style or fashion that much, and DH cares not one jot.

Our biggest difficulty is keeping all the rooms clean and tidy regularly.

Kfimbs Thu 12-Jun-25 18:43:46

Some people just like old stuff, or don’t have the money to change things, or don’t have the will to change things. All that disruption. Besides the longer you live with something the greater the inertia

BlueBelle Thu 12-Jun-25 18:48:13

It’s nobodies business but the owner of how they want or can afford their house to look, absolutely no one should judge
Make your house how you want it and mind your own business surmising why, what, and if ?
Look after your own patch

Sarahr Thu 12-Jun-25 18:51:52

My previous house was out-dated. However, I didn't have the means or ability to make alterations. A friend helped me create an en-suite shower in a useless corner of the bedroom. The previous owner was a builder and had made "improvements". It only took me 3 weeks to find the light switch for the kitchen. It was at the far end, tucked under a cupboard. A friend replaced it by the door. When the light in the entrance hall failed I discovered the wiring used was actually iron flex! Other than sorting out these issues I had to live with the house as it was when I bought it. I have heard that the people I sold it to have done absolutely nothing to it since I sold it, not even replacing the awful kitchen.
Thankfully, my circumstances have changed, and I have moved with my new husband to a 1960's house. We have just finished the renovation to bring it up to date from it's 1960's state.

RillaofIngleside Thu 12-Jun-25 18:55:30

Chazz01
Your house sounds wonderful, different periods require different treatment and types of furniture. Your care and attention to detail sounds fantastic, obviously not a candidate for modern "junk".

mabon1 Thu 12-Jun-25 19:00:29

Just stop judging people by your own standards. You haven't a clue as to why people don't change things.

mabon1 Thu 12-Jun-25 19:04:12

My kitchen is 40 years old solid oak in good condition and. it works well. I have had new hob, double oven. Why spends thousands on a plastic kitchen which is all I could afford.

Mt61 Thu 12-Jun-25 19:40:14

My old 2nd hand Stag wardrobes, ended as flooring for the loft, still going strong 😊

Shortbreadandkilts Thu 12-Jun-25 19:40:26

Yes, absolutely BlueBelle.

TLEBK Thu 12-Jun-25 20:25:33

We should just be grateful to have a roof over our heads, and ignore the wasteful among us. Energy used criticising people is a poor use of time, as is unnecessary “improvement “. No-one is going to wish, on their deathbed, that they’d had a new kitchen, but they might wish they’d been kinder?

ExaltedWombat Thu 12-Jun-25 20:38:27

Perhaps, like me, they just aren't that worried about decor, as long as everything works well enough! Life is for living, not worrying about carpets and wallpaper.

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CanadianGran Thu 12-Jun-25 20:43:46

I think there is a sense of complacency that sets in when your house is comfortable and you are content in it.

For instance, in my living room, the coffee tables are 35 years old, and the lamps are even older, but I see no need to replace them. The shades have been replaced because they were getting ratty, and to a more modern shape.

I think I'm at the stage where I am replacing things that are worn or no longer serviceable, but not replacing things for a sense of style. I'm ok with that.

El123 Thu 12-Jun-25 20:50:29

winterwhite

No one has mentioned the environmental impact of all these bathrooms, kitchens, doors, carpets etc going to landfill.
We’re urged to ‘consume’ less, repurpose more, throw away less, make do and mend, but for some reason this isn’t seen to apply to house renovation

Well said. I was hoping someone would point this out!
And as others have said some people like old/retro. And also dislike new - which can often be soulless/bland...

Allira Thu 12-Jun-25 21:00:53

Some of our furniture is Tapley SL, purchased when we bought our first house.
Apparently it's collectable now 🙂

El123 Thu 12-Jun-25 21:00:55

Cleaned up old stuff is often much better quality than new stuff. And no need to spend time, money, waste precious energy resources, look for workmen...Just leave it all alone that's what I say. So what if it's 'dated'. Hampton court is dated - nobody's ripping out that kitchen!'

butterandjam Thu 12-Jun-25 21:35:12

"Ths thing is - you could update a home when you're in your 60s and think that's it!
If you should live to your 90s and still able to live at home, then it will look dated. "

Anyone who lives to their 90's is going to look pretty dated.
I think it's cool to co-ordinate your face with your furnishings.

rowyn Thu 12-Jun-25 22:10:10

Ditto. And thanks Petra.

Musicgirl Thu 12-Jun-25 23:00:09

Madmeg, we have a lot of Nathan furniture, bought secondhand and mostly from charity shops. It is very good quality and if you could get the same quality today, you would spend north of £20,000 rather than the few hundred pounds we have spent over the years. We have bought many other items secondhand and the mix and match approach works for us. It is a home to be enjoyed and lived in and not a show home. It is also timeless rather than dated (l hope!) and as long as it is clean and tidy, l hope it is also welcoming.

Allira Thu 12-Jun-25 23:00:46

butterandjam

"Ths thing is - you could update a home when you're in your 60s and think that's it!
If you should live to your 90s and still able to live at home, then it will look dated. "

Anyone who lives to their 90's is going to look pretty dated.
I think it's cool to co-ordinate your face with your furnishings.

😂😂😂

NotSpaghetti Fri 13-Jun-25 00:13:33

butterandjam - my mother-in-law moved into a "new to her" house at 95.
She rewired, redecorated, put in a new kitchen and bathroom, revamped the utility, took up the carpets in the hall and staircase and had the wood sanded and polished.. she had a new boiler, moved all the plugs and lights about, had new radiators downstairs, ripped everything out of the front garden (and reinvented it) and then had the back garden terraced!

Not everyone will sit tight in their 90s.

Chaitriona Fri 13-Jun-25 07:18:24

Some people dread having workmen in their homes and avoid it if they can, particularly if they are older and not very well.
I am one such and tend to live with things I hate for years and only get a house as I want it, before I sell it. Which is ridiculous really. I have not been helped by my husband who hates all effort and says things are fine.
Having said that, one person's improvements are another person's destruction..
My present house was divided into an upper and lower home in the mid twentieth century, losing a beautiful stained glass stair window which remains in the house attached to it, next door which was also divided but in a different way.
I am glad to say that little was done after that and many beautiful features remain. Even the original brass keys in all the door locks.

NotSpaghetti Fri 13-Jun-25 08:27:48

You are right Chaitriona - everyone is different.

Lots of lovely homes of yesteryear have been totally ruined by improvements!