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Downsizing - people’s experience of moving from a house to bungalow

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JaniceF62 Sat 25-Oct-25 06:38:37

We’ve found a bungalow that we both think will be perfect (we’re downsizing).
Currently we live in a large 4 bedroom detached house, the bungalow is 3 bedrooms but with smaller rooms, and it ticks many of our boxes as we get older: great bus service, local shop and doctors close by and lovely walks (we have a dog).
We’ve always lived in houses and didn’t think we wanted a bungalow but have surprised ourselves to find how much we really like this bungalow. However we’re wondering how we’ll find changing from living in a house to a bungalow, also we sleep with our bedroom windows open at night. Does anyone on grans net have similar experience of moving from a large house to a bungalow? Also are there any suggestions for sleeping with windows open at night? Many thanks.

Chardy Sun 26-Oct-25 09:30:50

Regarding ground floor flat and bungalow window security, there are restrictor locks you can buy that means the window has to be closed from the inside, and unlatched before it can be fully opened

Allsorts Sun 26-Oct-25 06:14:02

My house should have been sold ages ago, it's too big for me. I am putting it on the market in the next two weeks, unfortunately it coincides with new neighbours doing work on an extension. I think this will adversely affect my price, the mess is awful. This now affects the amount I need to buy another home. However I have to do it as in a few years time I will be in trouble if I dont I love my home and garden but been here for a long time and dont want to see it deteriorate because I can't manage it. Dread the estate agent business and solicitors though and finding a new place.

Woollywoman Sat 25-Oct-25 21:12:57

We moved to a bungalow 2.5 years ago, and can’t recommend it enough. It’s practical and easy to manage. The windows can be left on a security setting to let in cool air and there are also trickle vents.
We moved from a large 3 bed semi which took a long time to declutter. We do miss the storage in the old house but there are ways round that. The summerhouse and garage are very useful for certain things…;-)
Good luck!

Lovemylife Sat 25-Oct-25 20:34:54

I live in a house but sleep downstairs. There are windows on 3 sides of my bedroom which can be locked at about 6” open. They proved to be burglar proof, but it was frightening being awoken by someone trying to get in the bedroom. There is now a thick layer of shingle on the path and I still sleep with the windows open.

Skydancer Sat 25-Oct-25 20:06:40

We actually moved from a bungalow to a house. But I prefer the bungalow as it had a wider footprint hence a wider garden. As it was surrounded by other bungalows we were not overlooked. If we move again it will be to a bungalow I hope.

62Granny Sat 25-Oct-25 18:06:32

We went from a 3 bed semi to a 2 bed bungalow 8 years ago , it was done because of necessity , but we have both said it is one of the best things we have done, the only thing I could do with is a bit of extra storage but it has made me de-clutter on a regular basis. Which I think is a good thing as we get older , do we really need lots of stuff which will be thrown out anyway once we are gone.

4allweknow Sat 25-Oct-25 17:51:47

I moved from a large 4 bed detached to a smaller 4 bed detached and I find that the smaller bedrooms are acceptable, but the smaller public rooms are awful. Having lived in flats of all sizes and locations wouldn't consider a bungalow unless it was big due to the noise being very easily transferred from room to room. I'd need sound proofed walls.

PamelaJ1 Sat 25-Oct-25 16:49:26

We moved to our bungalow when my husband gave up his ‘proper job’. He was going to do carpentry so we needed a bit of space around us so he could make a noise!
I lived in flats for most of my life before marriage so was very happy with one level. I think one utilises the space more than in a house and I particularly liked this one because the bedroom doors are down a hallway so separate from the living areas.
As others have said there are various ways of securing windows so have never been worried about burglars in the night.(or day)
I will have to downsize again if I am on my own because I couldn’t cope with the garden and I don’t need anything this big. My mind is ready for it when it comes.
The lack of stairs isn’t a problem as I play a bit of tennis and do lots of walking, other sports or classes are available.

ClicketyClick Sat 25-Oct-25 16:29:16

I downsized to a bungalow 2 years ago and like you was concerned about open windows but they had a security attachments to allow opening but not so much that someone could open them. You can also get online things to secure open windows. It's great hoovering on one level and no lugging the vacuum cleaner up stairs. I thought I'd miss having an upstairs but not at all. There are so many positives to bungalow living even if it does mean I can no longer justify having a window cleaner grin

Scribbles Sat 25-Oct-25 15:22:48

I made the transition 8 years ago from large old house with big rooms to modest bungalow with smaller rooms and one notable effect has been that I have become much tidier!

It doesn't take much clutter to make smallish rooms look like a tip so clutter is banished! I don't mean everything is always show-house pristine; things I need are kept handy but those amorphous, miscellaneous piles of Stuff that seem to flock like starlings on side tables and on worktops are a thing of the past.

I love the convenience of hopping out of bed and walking half a dozen paces to the kitchen to make my morning tea then taking it right back to bed. No more negotiating long passageways and steep stairs with a steaming mug.smile.

Bedroom windows have only top openings and I have no worries about keeping them open at night - I doubt if an underfed 3 year old could squeeze through the space.

As someone else has said, it's easier to keep warm because the heat is no longer disappearing up the stairs - the loft is well insulated so the warm air stays on one level and I stay snug.

We made the move because my husband could no longer cope with stairs and, even though he died 5+ years ago, I have no wish to revert to multi-storey living.

Beechnut Sat 25-Oct-25 14:41:14

Spiky cacti Aely 🌵

Babs03 Sat 25-Oct-25 14:06:16

Thanks Crosstitchfan 🌹🙏🏾

ZoeB Sat 25-Oct-25 13:51:10

A possibility for your windows would be the 'grills' fitted over them...often used in hot countries and more attractive than they sound!
It's what my parents had for their downstairs apartment. They were very happy with the security they offered and their downsizing.
Hope it goes well.

Aely Sat 25-Oct-25 13:13:07

I think a window ledge full of plants would be a challenge to any hopeful burglars planning a night time sortie.

I had to move with my two children into a ground floor maisonette for three years before getting this little house, many years ago. I was already having problems with my mobility and the two flights of stairs I had had to climb in the old place had been getting difficult, but I got some very funny looks from neighbours as I would step up and down my front door step for several minutes at a time, to make sure I didn't totally lose the ability.

My daughters would like me to move, not for downsizing (couldn't get much smaller than here), but because the neighbourhood is getting dodgy. It was bad enough doing the move to here, 30 years ago. I really don't even like to think about moving now, especially with the added problems of selling and buying a property, which I didn't have to contend with previously.

Beechnut Sat 25-Oct-25 12:50:00

…and it’s easier to go and lie on the bed rather than the sofa if you fancy forty winks.

LauraNorderr Sat 25-Oct-25 12:26:41

We moved to a two bedroom flat. I know it’s not the same but one floor and smaller rooms.
I found downsizing a liberating experience. Got rid of so much stuff, and let’s face it, it is just stuff.
Great that everything is on one level, no pile on the bottom stair ready to go up at some point, no rushing back upstairs when I’ve left my phone up there. No lugging the suitcase up and down when we go away. No having to carry the vacuum cleaner and other cleaning products up or down. No worrying about going up a ladder for window cleaning or gutter cleaning.
So many advantages.
We are on the first floor so less concern about open windows although newer windows have good security latches to allow narrow opening.
We can choose to use the stairs while we are able but have the luxury of a lift for later years if necessary.
Good luck with your move.

Witzend Sat 25-Oct-25 12:23:10

Re tilt and turn windows, a double glazing salesman once did a really hard sell on these - for a start they were cheaper - and he kept telling us that they were ‘very popular on the Continent’ - as if that was going to make us think they must be better.

TBH I must have windows that OPEN properly, whether casement or sash - we have both in this house.

For that reason I could never move to a ground floor flat, where I couldn't have a window properly open at night, especially in summer.

butterandjam Sat 25-Oct-25 12:10:22

I've slept rough in the open air (no tent) all over the world. DH and I met in a mountaineering club and rough-camped all year round . Although we no longer camp, (80 next year) we both still believe that the best most natural place to sleep in is cold open air. So at home, we never heat the bedroom and the window is open all night all year round. On the ground floor for the last 25 years, no problems whatever .

The windows here are tilt and turn, with a built in limiter, which means that with the limiter engaged it only opens < 3 inches at the top (inward) and bottom (outward). Nobody outside can reach the limiter control to dis-engage it, so completely unable either to climb in, reach in, or force the window open. Perfectly secure. Rain can't get in either.

In high winds or very low temps I latch it just an inch open..
Its very rarely closed right up except in extreme gales (windspeed over 80 ) or very hard freeze (> -15) .

We're never cold because bed is a sanctuary, dressed for total comfort. Winter duvet 15 tog. Summer duvet it a very light wool one I bought in Australia. Winter linen is brushed cotton, summer is smooth cotton. Pillows are 100% goose down, pillowcases are are pure linen all year round. In winter an electric underblanket is turned on half an hour before bed; and off before we get in to toasty bed.

I've long been convinced that sleeping in cold fresh air is a cornerstone of good health. Our babies (all summer born) spent part of every day sleeping in the pram outdoors in the garden .

Crossstitchfan Sat 25-Oct-25 11:05:52

Babs03

We are moving from a large Victorian semi with four bedrooms and two receptions to a bungalow. I am presently caring for my DH after he suffered a stroke so is really stressful but the family are trying to help.
We are boxing up and bagging up stuff to get rid of to local charities. Luckily the couple buying our house want some of our furniture so we will only take what we need and if they don’t want all that us left we will give it to charity or free cycle.
Is so much to do but I have no regrets. I cannot manage a big house and caring for my DH and he will find it so much easier to get around when is all in one level. Also we will be closer to family, but are not depending on this, the bungalow is lovely in a location we have always wanted to live in near the South Downs, so if family moved away we would still love to live in the bungalow, which is near to all the facilities we need in a small town.

Sounds perfect, Babs03. May you and your husband have many happy times there.
Moving from a large property to my lovely flat was the best thing I ever did, property-wise.

Crossstitchfan Sat 25-Oct-25 11:03:02

I moved from a 4 bed bungalow to a 3 bed apartment three years ago, soon after the death of my husband. The bedrooms in the bungalow were very big by today’s standards, as were the living areas. The apartment has much smaller rooms. I love it and wish I had done it sooner. I am near the shops and the seafront so that’s great for shopping and walks. Although the bungalow was lovely, and the garden very pretty, I don’t miss either of them. I am very happy here and, being on one level and not big, it is easy for me to keep clean, which is essential as I get older. I have a great view too!

beachcomber76 Sat 25-Oct-25 10:41:59

I moved to a bungalow when I was 46 because I'd always liked them and moved to a place where they are affordable so grabbed at the chance. So easy to maintain, decorate and keep clean, and usually nice sized gardens.
I've since done up 3 more as cheaper ones usually need updating [new kitchen, bathroom, decoration, flooring, garden tidy up. They are quick to sell on and always a market for ones in good order. I'm probably now in my last one, which I love, and am now 76.

They are so practical to live in, no traipsing up and down stairs to a toilet or bathroom, or to clean them or to put clothes away etc. In winter heating doesn't disappear upstairs [have a well insulated loft].

On hot nights I open small top openers in rooms and keep the door open so air moves through, no problem.

30 years of living in bungalows and I do not have 'bungalow legs' believe me...but I'm active, always doing gardening, decorating, woodwork etc. use stairs if I'm out anywhere/visiting places and walk as much as I can. Maybe that's why.

Babs03 Sat 25-Oct-25 10:33:07

We are moving from a large Victorian semi with four bedrooms and two receptions to a bungalow. I am presently caring for my DH after he suffered a stroke so is really stressful but the family are trying to help.
We are boxing up and bagging up stuff to get rid of to local charities. Luckily the couple buying our house want some of our furniture so we will only take what we need and if they don’t want all that us left we will give it to charity or free cycle.
Is so much to do but I have no regrets. I cannot manage a big house and caring for my DH and he will find it so much easier to get around when is all in one level. Also we will be closer to family, but are not depending on this, the bungalow is lovely in a location we have always wanted to live in near the South Downs, so if family moved away we would still love to live in the bungalow, which is near to all the facilities we need in a small town.

Grannynannywanny Sat 25-Oct-25 10:22:43

I moved from our 4 bed family home of 40 years to a 2 bed bungalow a few months ago and I love it. But I certainly underestimated the length of time needed for the clear out and parting with possessions I would no longer need or be able to accommodate.

I dithered about downsizing for 2 years but foolishly didn’t make a start on the sorting and clear out till I decided to put my house on the market. Then I had 3 months to get on with it.

I live alone and it was a mammoth undertaking . My AC helped as much as possible but due to distance and working hours I did most of it on my own. I was on first name terms with the staff at the local dump by the time I’d finished. Likewise the local charity shops.

But I’m very happily settled into my 2 bed bungalow. The second room is spacious enough for bunk beds and a single bed so plenty of room for visiting family.

My main advice is even if you haven’t fully decided on the move to start your sorting and clearing out now. I found that part really hard but eventually I became more ruthless . I had a ridiculous amount of “I’ll hold onto that in case it comes in handy” stuff. But in the end it was very satisfying.,

Good luck with whatever you decide. And start filling bags for the dump and charity shop now while you’re thinking about it 😀

Elless Sat 25-Oct-25 10:12:30

We moved to a bungalow 18 months ago. We have been very lucky finding one with a very large living room and main bedroom. It was hard deciding which furniture and belongings to keep and I still struggle with space but I'm so glad we moved. We have a rear facing bedroom with small windows which we have open, I thought I would find it hard to relax being on 'ground level' but I am quite happy now.

Witzend Sat 25-Oct-25 09:58:00

I can only quote the experience of my parents, who moved to a bungalow in their mid 60s - not because they particularly wanted a bungalow, but because it was all they could find in their chosen area.

After about 3 years they decided they didn’t much like the area after all, and moved again, to a house. And were somewhat shocked to find that the lack of stairs had really affected their fitness to cope with them. Of course their fitness did eventually return, but only after quite some time. My Dm was still well able to manage stairs when she moved to a care home at nearly 89, only because of dementia.

My elder sister recently said stairs are much more of an effort now, a few years after moving to a bungalow, but that was a very necessary move, because of her dh’s health. In general she’s an extremely fit person for her age.