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Have you made any small home changes to make life safer as you get older?

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OliviaRema Wed 10-Dec-25 08:35:29

Hi again, my children have started gently nagging me about “making the house safer” as I get older – things like better lighting on the stairs, extra rails, non-slip bits in the bathroom, that sort of thing. I can see their point, as my joints aren’t quite what they used to be, but I don’t want to turn the place into a building site or spend a fortune.

Have any of you made small, age-friendly changes at home that have actually helped day to day? Simple things like where you keep everyday bits, little tweaks in the bathroom or kitchen, or low-cost gadgets that made more difference than you expected.

Oldnproud Thu 18-Dec-25 18:00:34

kittylester

Oldnproud

A small, plug-in night light on the landing, to minimise the risk of anyone accidentally falling down the stairs while making their way to the bathroom in the dark.
This so nearly happened to me while still in my fifties, but I am sure the risk of this sort of thing happening grows with age.

Why do people put landing lights off overnight. We have always left a light on since we had children.

I can't answer for anyone else, but I don't like the landing light on during the night because I like the bedroom as dark as possible. Even with the door fully closed, too much light can be seen for my liking. I suppose that it wouldn't matter if I slept solidly all night, but I don't.

CariadAgain Thu 18-Dec-25 12:19:08

Jennerdysphoria

BED- I bought a lovely rising bed (I can raise the feet end or the head end, or both, with a handset control. I have to be careful to keep the handset nearby as it can easily slip off my narrow single bed. This was because I have difficulty rising from lying down. Not too expensive, from Argos.

BOOKS - I use kindle to avoid accumulating physical books. For academic/specialist books I subscribe to Perlego who have them readable online. To take discards and other clutter away, I use Anglo, who collect from the door.

Out of interest - I've got a friend with a noticeable number of severe health problems and she was commenting to me yesterday that she's had to buy one of these rising beds and she was not very happily telling me yesterday that it's gone wrong on her and she needs a new one - and it's only about 5 years old. Not surprisingly = she's not a happy bunny at the thought of having to replace her bed after only that length of time.

Do you/anyone else have any recommendations on suitable makes of such beds - and what sort of price level to expect to have to pay for a reasonable quality one? As she's late 50's then any bed she buys now should "see her out" so to say - but a bed of that standard looks to have to be replaced several more times over the course of her life. NB; It's a double bed - looks to me like it's a 5' wide one.

nanna8 Thu 18-Dec-25 12:09:23

We have a beautiful wooden staircase but we have carpeted it in case either of us takes a tumble. Doesn’t look so beautiful but better than breaking your neck !

luluaugust Thu 18-Dec-25 09:02:38

We have a handrail for the steps up to the front door and same for the garden. Also non slip shower mat. I wear shoes in the house not slippers

kittylester Thu 18-Dec-25 08:59:33

Oldnproud

A small, plug-in night light on the landing, to minimise the risk of anyone accidentally falling down the stairs while making their way to the bathroom in the dark.
This so nearly happened to me while still in my fifties, but I am sure the risk of this sort of thing happening grows with age.

Why do people put landing lights off overnight. We have always left a light on since we had children.

CarolDean Thu 18-Dec-25 08:54:14

Got rid of most of the throw rugs because they complicated floor cleaning. Never have regretted it. I did keep one at the front door entry to wipe feet but am considering removing it since there is a mat just outside.

Karen22 Mon 15-Dec-25 19:57:41

Ive not rearranged but instead ive downsized from a 3 bedroom house to a new one bedroom apartment for the over 55's.
Its so good, no stairs, huge walk in shower, plugs all higher, fully carpeted and best of all its very warm and i hardly have the heating on and shops on my doorstep.
Highly recommend it.....oh and less cleaning , pure bliss 😊

Jennerdysphoria Mon 15-Dec-25 18:46:36

BED- I bought a lovely rising bed (I can raise the feet end or the head end, or both, with a handset control. I have to be careful to keep the handset nearby as it can easily slip off my narrow single bed. This was because I have difficulty rising from lying down. Not too expensive, from Argos.

BOOKS - I use kindle to avoid accumulating physical books. For academic/specialist books I subscribe to Perlego who have them readable online. To take discards and other clutter away, I use Anglo, who collect from the door.

Oldnproud Mon 15-Dec-25 15:38:47

A small, plug-in night light on the landing, to minimise the risk of anyone accidentally falling down the stairs while making their way to the bathroom in the dark.
This so nearly happened to me while still in my fifties, but I am sure the risk of this sort of thing happening grows with age.

bookwormbabe Mon 15-Dec-25 13:14:52

My husband is unsteady on his feet and was becoming increasingly fearful of walking downstairs, so I contacted Adult Social Services and arranged for an extra stair rail to be fitted, which they did free of charge, no questions asked! Now he can go up and down the stairs with no worries.

CariadAgain Fri 12-Dec-25 22:47:05

Floradora9

When we redid our en suite we had a large shower cubicle put it . We were told it was so your helper could get in the shower with you . Never been put to the test so far but it was good for showering two little grand children together.

Aw shucks and there was me thinking it was handy for two people having a shower together - errrrm....not the person themselves and a helper iyswim. But yep....valid point that there would be sufficient room for a helper too....

Arto1s Fri 12-Dec-25 22:41:24

Also, built-in seats in our extra large shower.

Arto1s Fri 12-Dec-25 22:40:12

Grab bars in the shower and toilet. One level home - no stairs anywhere inside or out. Higher toilet seats. Non-slip rugs. A stool in our walk-in closet; great for sitting on and putting on socks!

Floradora9 Fri 12-Dec-25 21:40:41

When we redid our en suite we had a large shower cubicle put it . We were told it was so your helper could get in the shower with you . Never been put to the test so far but it was good for showering two little grand children together.

Riversidegirl Fri 12-Dec-25 16:47:45

Our local council fitted a bathroom pole by the shower, a bar inside the shower, and a help bar inside the front door, all free of charge. We are owner occupiers so count ourselves very lucky to live here. We are not disabled, just a bit old!

hollysteers Fri 12-Dec-25 15:16:45

I’m in a split level bungalow and have started leaving a light on in the hall outside my bedroom, the bathroom is next door. This was prompted by a friend getting up in the night in complete darkness and falling downstairs (in her house) ending up in a right mess. I have stairs adjoining my bedroom.

A grabber is useful and the showering shoes sound a good idea.

Norah Fri 12-Dec-25 14:46:02

Grab rail at the back door, long, verticle, small children use rails too. smile

Sliding kitchen shelves (over existing lower shelves) easy access.

Removal of tub, addition of huge shower space, no glass.

karmalady Fri 12-Dec-25 12:54:31

Also not safe re wall fixings, which can rip out of walls via the turning force due to the very heavy weight up high

karmalady Fri 12-Dec-25 12:52:30

I bought an eddington lambourn butchers block for my kitchen. The castors can lock or unlock to easily roll it

The shelves underneath are very strong and I stand my many heavy pots underneath, my pressure cookers , my wonderful le creuset etc I like and use these pots regularly and will never get rid of them. Fetching something heavy from low down is much safer. I do not keep anything heavy up high, for which I would need to use steps

henetha Fri 12-Dec-25 12:37:42

I installed a grab handle in my shower which is very handy.
It kept falling off at first so I stuck it on with superglue which has worked well.

CariadAgain Fri 12-Dec-25 12:34:13

Greyduster

“I put all my cast iron pans on top of my kitchen cupboards so I have to stand on tipto to reach them and ^persuade them to come down, catching them as they do^”

Frankly, fit or not, that sounds bl***y dangerous!!

Yep....I had some of these cast iron saucepans back along - and they are indeed heavy and I wouldnt be trying to get them down from a height at the best of times......

Greyduster Fri 12-Dec-25 11:50:31

“I put all my cast iron pans on top of my kitchen cupboards so I have to stand on tipto to reach them and ^persuade them to come down, catching them as they do^”

Frankly, fit or not, that sounds bl***y dangerous!!

Tuinoma Fri 12-Dec-25 11:42:55

I've gone the other way.
I realize I'm one of the lucky ones to be perfectly able to do the things I did 20 or 30 years ago. I put all my cast iron pans on top of my kitchen cupboards so I have to stand on tipto to reach them and persuade them to come down, catching them as they do..
I walk across the fields or through the woods with my dog for a cple of hours most days and physically don't try to make life easier. I just believe challenging myself keeps me as fit as is possibly. Yes very lucky in that I'm still hale n hearty in all respects, except for my brain! I'm 79

Greyduster Fri 12-Dec-25 11:13:25

Sorry Aldom - crossed post.

Greyduster Fri 12-Dec-25 11:12:26

Regarding suction grab handles you need to get the ones with indicators which change colour to tell you when they might need reattaching. They change from green to red. Buy them from a decent retailer of disability aids. I detach mine occasionally to give them a clean and then reattach them. They haven’t let me down yet and I’ve had them since 2022.

I would just add that they work best on glazed tiles. I took mine way on holiday earlier this year but the shower had slightly textured panels and they wouldn’t work.