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House buying today.

(83 Posts)
Cossy Wed 29-Apr-26 11:44:34

I can understand the question being asked (possibly) but to submit something in writing?? No way would I do that!

Cossy Wed 29-Apr-26 11:43:14

Good grief! Never! DD currently buying her first home, nothing of this nature in their buying experience. Is it a listed building or in a conservation area or a building of historical significance? If no, I’d ask why this is needed!

DS purchased his first house two years ago, opposite end of the country to DD and was not asked for this either!

Doodledog Wed 29-Apr-26 11:39:00

I've never heard of that, but there are houses around me that are advertised as being for sale only to people who are going to live in them (ie not Air B&Bs or holiday homes). Maybe it's something on those lines?

Casdon Wed 29-Apr-26 11:34:59

It might be that the lady selling the house, or her mother, want to make sure the house goes to somebody who will love it too, rather than to a landlord, which all sellers have the right to do? I don’t think your granddaughter and fiancé have anything to fear, they just need to explain it will be their first home, and they will be living there, and why they love it?

Usedtobeblonde Wed 29-Apr-26 11:25:32

The owner has gone into residential care and her D is selling on her behalf.
The house has been beautifully maintained and well loved, it is still fully furnished and even her clothes are still in the wardrobes.
Loved but quite old fashioned with knickknacks and dried flower arrangements on every surface.

midgey Wed 29-Apr-26 11:17:40

Perhaps the seller is someone who loves their house and wants to find a couple who will love it too!

crazyH Wed 29-Apr-26 11:15:57

Never heard of that before.
Perhaps the EA are conducting some research on the saleability of properties, on their books.

Usedtobeblonde Wed 29-Apr-26 11:08:34

My GD and her BF have stating looking for a house to buy, it will be their first home together.
The first thing to be done is get a mortgage in principle, without this you cannot even make an appointment to view.
Fair enough, we can perhaps all remember the time wasters and the afternoon out viewers.

They have this offer now and have to submit the copy of this to the Estate Agents.
They saw a house yesterday, no chain, older, quite small house and could see potential in it.
This morning they made an offer, too low in my opinion , but that is a lesson for them to learn.
They have just texted me to say they have been asked to submit a summary of why they would like to buy that house.
Has anyone heard of this before?
Is it standard now?
I last bought a house in 1976 so am completely out of practice .
I doubt I will ever be back in practice actually.