We often thought about buying our family home, built for my grand-parents, and where my mum grew up, and later me. Parens had to sell to pay off her brother's part- in their 70s- and my mum found it so so hard. We all absolutely loved that house and it was unique. It has been changed and poshified/americanised so much- I would not enjoy it now. Nor could we afford it anyhow.
We absolutely loved out last house in the UK- but it is now a Crêche, and has been changed so much, and the garden I spent 30 years to create has all been turned back to lawn and the mixed hedge gone. Finally though, after 11 years, we are ready to visit it when we next go. We watch their FB site and photos- and it is lovely to see the children so happy. Could not have visited it until now though, and would nto buy it back. Such a happy house, happy days- but gone.