as many of you know i am now the special guardian of my beautiful grand daughter 
she has been here nearly 4 months now and is an absolutely joy, although im knackered lol!
she is a very contented baby and loves us all here, which im so pleased about, even my teenage boys (14 & 15) argue over who looks after her while i get in the bath! joy!
now for the advice.....
in the sgo order, the parents contact is separate as they are on and off like a light switch. so mum, my daughters contact is managed by me, as and when i feel is appropriate. dads contact is once every 2 months for 3 hours. after the order was granted, the sw and guardian decided that 3 hrs was too long and that we were to stick to an hour and a half every 2 months. obviously dad isnt happy with this. at his first contact it was decided that we wouldnt use the contact centre, he wanted to take her swimming and as long as his support worker was present that was fine. we spent the time in my local park, baby was apprehensive to start with, but after about 40 minutes she warmed to him and was quite receptive. we didnt end up going swimming by the way because all his money went on dope!!!!
a couple of weeks after sw rung me to see how it went and to ask if we need the contact centre from now on, i said im not sure but im not happy to supervise contact on my own at the minute because of all the messages & hassles i am getting most days from dad. she said she would speak to his support worker to see if she could do the next 4 contacts at least.
ive not heard from her since, so assumed that it was going to be the same as last time.
the messages hehas been sending have been saying that the judge said his contact was for 3 hours and that he was going to get it etc.
i had a message from my daughter tonight saying that sw is going to ring me to confirm that dads contact is for 3 hrs.
now im assuming hes been pressuring her and that as the order says 3 hours its got to be stuck to.
im not happy top spend 3 hrs with this 'man' at all, even with his support worker there, so am i within my rights to ask for the contact centre? more importantly, baby isnt going to be happy to be away from me for 3 hrs shes going through her 'clingy' stage and always wants me!
im kind of stuck on what i should say to sw? and what im within my rights to do?