My 2nd DH have been together for 20 years and married for 3 years. He has 2 adult kids and I have 3 adult kids. Between us we have 7 lovely grandchildren ages 0-6.
The house belongs to my DH and I had no property of my own.
Because he wants to make sure I am financially OK should he die first we went to the solicitor to change his will.
The arrangment now is that should he go 1st I can stay in the house until I die but if I want to downsize I can sell the house and buy a smaller property. The money left over from the house sale would then be shared between me and his 2 kids. When I die the house would then go to his 2 kids.
Out of my 3 kids, only my youngest DD gets on well with my DH. My eldest DD has never made any effort to get to know him or like him. My DS doesn't make much effort either though he is friendly enough when they see each other.
Does the will arrangement sound fair?
We live in Scotland so the law here is a bit different too.
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