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How much pension for a comfortable life?

(259 Posts)
abbey Sat 17-Sept-16 08:42:14

Well, the question is in the title .

I was just wondering how much is supposed to be enough? I dont mean a gad about life, just a quiet pleasant one.

My husband seems to think we need to have around £30K pa to retire on and is pushing me to make the "shortfall". He gets his pension + state pension already ( he is over 65) and its around £18K pa right now. I still work but its part time. When I retire I reckon I will have around £10K. He says thats not enough...... but I know he is obsessed with money because of the abject poverty he was brought up in.

So how much realistically? Two people, nice house, no mortgage, not interested in fancy holidays (even a holiday in my own case). I do like to run a car.

We do have savings - but without relying on them. All figures after tax.

wot Mon 19-Sept-16 13:14:44

As they tend to do!

wot Mon 19-Sept-16 13:13:46

I only want to enough money to sort out emergency repairs and other bad things that may come along.

gillybob Mon 19-Sept-16 12:23:01

......but you can save that for the birds and bees, she wants Money !

mrsjones Mon 19-Sept-16 12:20:28

The best things in life are free smile

wot Mon 19-Sept-16 11:46:39

No inheritances to look forward to!!!

wot Mon 19-Sept-16 11:45:30

Same sort of thing but from a person without a fortune and a small state pension (me!) How much should I try to save for contingencies? Fortunately got no mortgage but the house will need 2/3 thousand for repairs and I need to keep a car as I'm in the sticks here.

Smithy Mon 19-Sept-16 10:37:08

ZZZZZZ

fiorentina51 Mon 19-Sept-16 07:41:05

???

Jalima Sun 18-Sept-16 22:16:12

Abbey, with every post you submit you dig the hole deeper.... you'll be in Australia soon.
willsmadnan if abbey does do that she will find that her pension does not rise and remains at the same level as the day she dug through.
Healthcare has to be paid for too.

Chin up abbey and count your blessings:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=s00cex6vi-o

mcem Sun 18-Sept-16 21:19:06

You've had enough of working.
You have enough money to live comfortably.
You've had enough 'discussion' here.
Enough of the gloating!!
I (and I suspect others) have had enough of this ridiculous thread.

NfkDumpling Sun 18-Sept-16 20:34:56

Retire!

GrannyBing Sun 18-Sept-16 19:36:18

We read about people who leave behind big sums of money but during their lives no-one guessed they were rich. I find your 'fortune' story fascinating Abbey because it illustrates how such a situation can come about.

For myself, I try to balance capital growth and income to achieve my worry-free retirement. I think £28k for 2 people is fine, £30k is better and you could save from that, but as a single person aim for at least £20k. Retirement can get quite boring so you need some luxuries, breaks, interests. Some capital as a cushion gives a good feeling of security but as others have said 'seize the day', you can't take it with you.

dramatictessa Sun 18-Sept-16 19:35:46

I sort of get where you're coming from, abbey in that I would like to live only on my pensions and leave my savings in case they are needed for my care. However, they are minimal compared to yours, any inheritance I received was tiny and I do have children to leave any money to. You have sufficient income to lead a very, very comfortable life now, without the need to use your state pension. Maybe you should donate the pension to charity, then you could live off your inheritance without feeling guilty.

willsmadnan Sun 18-Sept-16 19:26:26

Abbey, with every post you submit you dig the hole deeper.... you'll be in Australia soon. For heaven's sakes, get yourself a passport, quit your boring job and take off for a few months somewhere.... anywhere. Leave the old man working on his financial spread sheet and have some fun. You can't take it with you when you shuffle off, and none of us know how soon the Grim Reaper will come for us. You may think you can control everything, but you've no control over the inevitable.. .. none of us have.

petra Sun 18-Sept-16 19:15:55

Can you imagine the mindset of someone who would rather leave money to HMRC rather than the 1000s of small charities who are doing so much good and receive no help.

Ana Sun 18-Sept-16 19:03:31

Presumably tax is payable on the multi-thousand pounds savings? And that bill will grow every year, as your fortune accrues. Hope you've taken that into account as well!

gillybob Sun 18-Sept-16 19:02:55

I was suspicious of this thread right from the beginning .

Freeflyer Sun 18-Sept-16 18:54:50

We spent some years in Africa, so do not receive full government pensions. So we both set up private pensions to cover the shortfall. Sadly, we lost a great deal because the pensions were with a pension company (I will not mention which one) that almost collapsed. When I retired, seven years after my husband, I was terrified we would not manage. Our income is currently just over £20,000 annually (no mortgage any more) and we not only manage well enough, with the odd holiday, monthly gym membership, and belonging to our local bowls club, we also manage to save each month. We have a car, but rarely use it as we also love cycling. You will find a whole new world out there and should be enjoying it together while you can.

aggie Sun 18-Sept-16 18:33:05

An income of £30000 per annum is beyond the reach of most retired people , your Husband is paranoid

grannybuy Sun 18-Sept-16 18:26:31

A poster mentioned the family inheriting the house, but unless provision has been made to safeguard it, it may, in the end be needed to cover care fees. Equally, spend some of your inheritance/savings rather than that also all go on care.

jollyg Sun 18-Sept-16 18:21:29

I do hope you have made a will if you see others as vultures ready to enjoy your inheritances. This is your right and husbands. Please do so if you have not already done so

Lilyflower Sun 18-Sept-16 18:08:37

£30K is much more than my DH and I will have to live on when he retires.

Luckygirl Sun 18-Sept-16 18:00:17

I have been on gransnet for many years and i do not think I have ever seen such a mad thread!!

Luckygirl Sun 18-Sept-16 17:57:09

Your original question was how much PENSION was enough for your both to live on. It is the wrong question - you should be asking how much MONEY is enough to live on.

Lazigirl Sun 18-Sept-16 17:56:41

A colleague of mine was left a decent legacy from her parents and she would not us it when she retired because she felt her parents had worked their socks off to get it. Within two years of retirement she sadly died of cancer, and I don't think her children had the same compunction about spending it!