I see I misread and df only gave the house he and dm own together - live in ? - to niece. As a pp said, perhaps because he thinks brother will get to keep the house he lives in especially if he is disabled in any way.
So that means that the proceeds from the house (if niece pays up in time) will be divided between all the siblings, but this brother will also get the other house? That makes it a little messier than I thought.
Yes, even if df plans to give out that money while he and dm are alive, it's true he could die tomorrow, sorry to say. But then wouldn't it go to dm and couldn't she divide it? Is she on board with all this? I would think so but the op didn't say.
I don't think it was "harsh" or "callous" of me to say df has a right to do as he chooses. I was just stating reality. Ac shouldn't "expect" that things are going to be this way or that with their parents' money. Particularly in today's world, too many other factors can become involved like trying to keep money/property in the family and not have it all go to a care home.
Also, perhaps that's "wrong," but df probably thinks it's the "right thing to do" and has everybody's best interests at heart. If all goes as he plans, niece gets the one house, but she has to pay for it. The op and her siblings get the money for free. Sure, niece can sell the house, eventually, and make a profit, but they can invest that free money and make it grow. The only inequity seems to be brother getting a house for free. But maybe he's not getting as much/any of the money from the other house? Not a foolproof plan but, imo, df is trying to do what he thinks is best.
There is a danger that niece won't pay up by the time df and dm are sadly gone. And then I don't know if op and her siblings could get the money from her. But would a will solve that problem?
Op, are you still reading? Do you know anymore about how df plans to go about this and divvy things up? It does sound a little messier than I thought. But perhaps he is already working with a solicitor and has it all worked out? Instead of complaining and expressing annoyance, why not ask more questions? Be prepared for the possibility that he might not answer, however, which is his right, even if a little cold.