So sorry about this guiltyson. I know you're worried. It's hard to keep a balance between that and letting mum keep her independence.
Actually, not much you can do, legally speaking, since she is an independent adult. dbDB77's advice sounds good. Not much more you can do beyond that.
Is this why you call yourself "guiltyson?" You have nothing to be guilty about. You're doing your best. It's up to her to take your advice or not. "You can lead a horse to water, etc." Not your fault if mum doesn't listen.
Good Morning Saturday 16th May 2026


