Exactly so, luckygirl. It was an enormous amount of stress, for a silly bit of money. Enough to pay for my mums funeral, and my daughters, when the time came.
I spent over a year trying to look after my mum, and being summoned again and again to the job centre, being asked why we had put money in my name if it was my mums. Of course, there was no reason to believe my explanation that it really wasn't my money, but I was working when we'd done it, so didn't think we had to worry.
I had to keep trying to find out where accounts were, and even Santander didn't seem sure!! I had to provide photocopies of 2 years statements, from accounts which dont issue statements as a matter of course.
If I ever find myself with money to spare, it'll be going under my mattress!