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lending children house deposit

(55 Posts)
paddyann Wed 02-May-18 10:45:11

If ou can afford to, dont lend..give.We give our kids money gifts regularly .For holidays and christmas and just because the suns shining and we're grateful for what we have.They'll get it when we die anyway and its much nicer being able to see them enjoy it

Nannarose Wed 02-May-18 10:33:58

Be aware that some mortgage providers won't make offers (or less good offers) in these circumstances. If done informally, it can be glossed over, but if drawn up by a solicitor, needs to be formally declared.

This is what we have done, but I have to say that we trust our children implicitly, and made a decision not to worry about interest:
The money has been legally declared a 'gift'. In our wills, we state that all money given formally (and we keep a record) goes into 'hotch-pot'. That means that, for example:
Child 1 has been given £20k
Child 2 has been given 10k
Child 3 has been given nothing.
Estate worth £600k, divided 3 ways means:
Child 1 gets £190k
Child gets £200k
Child 3 gets £210k
So it all evens up.

In the meantime, any of them are welcome to repay the loan and have it removed.
Of course, not everyone can do that, as we don't anticipate needing the money soon, and have discussed options (such as them re-mortgaging their home) should it be needed.

We do understand the pitfalls, but I offer it as a possible, and in some circumstances, simple, solution.

Otherwise, you could consider a 'joint purchase' with you having a certain charge on the house. you would do well to talk to a mortgage broker as well as a solicitor.

Situpstraight Wed 02-May-18 09:08:56

PS, what happens if he doesn’t want to sell for 30 years? Can you afford to have an open ended loan?

Situpstraight Wed 02-May-18 09:08:09

I’m sure if you phone a Solicitor they will give you an idea of their charges.

Granflower Wed 02-May-18 09:05:33

I am thinking of lending my son a sum of money to help towards a house deposit. Only payable when the house is sold in the future. He is putting a large sum in himself as well. Has anyone any experience of drawing up a loan agreement or second charge to so that I can protect the money. I trust him implictly but he wants to do it properly.
Any idea of costs would be helpful