What a nightmare situation, I think it may be better not to contact this women, if you loose your cool this could get very messy.
Do you have house and building insurance, most cover legal representation and advice. If you do give them a ring.
It doesn't matter what the legal problem is
OR
ring round your local solicitors, some offer 30 minutes free legal advice.
Best of luck
Does anyone have a middle name?
What "back then" inconvenience would annoy today's youngsters?
Tate brothers arrested in US as further UK charges take total to 59
and maybe a glass of 

