Death benefit nomination on remarriage after divorce pension sharing order

Sorry, I posted after you'd said you had got your answer.

I think, if the Death Benefit is to do with your children's father, they ought to benefit from it.

Thanks, all of you, for your opinions. Very helpful. I think I already knew the answer - just needed to hear it from others.

I thought children were the product of two people ILC IF they are hers as well why would you say HIS children ?
Back in the day it was normal for mums to do the majority of childcare ...even mums who worked like me !
I'd pass it to their children ,the new man didn't work for it in any way and their dad did .

In my lowely opinion, given it came from their father, in yr shoes I would leave it to your children with him. "Keep it in the family".
If yr current husband has children or remarries, why should there be any chance it will go to others after his demise?

Also agree with Ilovecheese

It's a hard decision but overall I agree with Ilovecheese.

If the pension fund was built up while you were married to your first husband then it is as much yours as his. Your half is therefore yours alone.
Were you looking after his children while he was building up his pension pot?
If you leave the money to your new husband, would you trust him to leave something to your sons in his will?

The money is yours and yours alone, in my opinion, you do what feels right for yourself.

If it came from their father, it should go to his children.

Your own personal money could go to your husband.