So sorry to hear about your terrible dx but may I point out that some of the advice given goes totally against the purpose of AA.
It is not intended for "luxuries" or to be "donated" elsewhere, it is given to help those who NEED extra support to pay for ESSENTIAL assistance with everyday tasks.
You do say that you and your husband are managing well both physically and financially at the moment, so I would suggest holding off on applying for this benefit for the time being but to revisit the subject every month or so to look at what physical help may be needed in the imminent couple of months and to decide at that time whether you NEED to apply for the financial assistance.
I wish you well with your treatment and hope that whatever extra time it gives you will also be of good quality ❤
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