Helen657 - it is so hard isn't it. My OH thought he was being cut up and put down the sewer. How to deal with that?
The fact that you are exhausted by it all and it is making you ill is exactly why so many people do not get what they are entitled to. They or their relatives just lose heart and give up - and who can blame them?
When it actually came to the appeal hearing (which was done on zoom) I cannot fault them. There was someone appointed by the health authority to be an advisor to me, and she and those on the panel were all independent and had not been involved with the previous decision - in fact two were from a different area. My appointee was very supportive and she pointed out things in my favour that I had missed. The panel were courteous and supportive, as they knew my OH had died, and simply asked me to clarify the items in my appeal. I had a DD with me who chipped in now and again. The panel had all his medical, home nursing and nursing home notes, and I had been sent these too so I could see where they were getting their information from. The appointee rang me the next day to say that they had granted the appeal - mind you I am still waiting for the money!
The appeal was granted posthumously.
Is it rude to not finish a book club choice that was selected by someone else?


