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Scared about lack of pension contributions. Is there anything I can do?

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BlushingSheep Thu 15-Sept-22 00:39:04

Hi, this is my first post, so please be kind.

I am 52 and it has only recently dawned on me that because of the types of jobs I have had all my life (low-paid/temp), I have probably not been paying enough contributions to my state pension. There have been periods of unemployment too.
Is there anything I can do about this, or is it now too late? I have some money coming to me from a will and am wondering if I should use any of it (if it's enough) to top up - assuming that's something you can even do.
My name will shortly be going onto the deeds of our house, and my husband will be getting a couple of small work pensions which he has assured me will be coming to me (or a %) if he passes away first, but I am scared, as the realisation has dawned, that I may well end up homeless and destitute.

Norah Fri 23-Sept-22 12:54:07

Many do unpaid work, never pay tax or NI - as such have no state pension. I'm 77 and have no state pension. Can happen.

V3ra Thu 22-Sept-22 22:35:44

I can remember the change to the married woman's national insurance being discussed at work in the late 1970s.
The older women were advised they wouldn't get the benefit of changing to the full stamp.

Us two younger ones, in our very early 20s, were told we should do so.
I think I just shrugged and went along with what I was told to do. Forty+ years ahead seemed unimaginable at that age ?

Doodledog Thu 22-Sept-22 20:26:04

Oh, and I have a dressmaking one somewhere. I can't thread a sewing machine, but it must have been bought with hope rather than expectation.

Doodledog Thu 22-Sept-22 20:24:53

We had a 1960s medical book (with less terrifying cures than leeches grin ), a DIY book with stepladders on the cover, a consumer rights one that my dad was found of quoting, and a gardening one. There may have been others, but those ones spring to mind.

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 19:56:39

We had medical books that recommended leeches to let blood, and putting a spoon in someone's mouth if they had a seizure.

Callistemon21 Thu 22-Sept-22 19:45:41

Doodledog

They had books giving sound advice on everything. Do they still publish now, or has Google done for them?

We have loads of those lovely Readers' Digest books.
MIL used to buy them! Lots of them ?

Readers' Digest started in 1922 apparently, a few years after Enquire Within.

They must have updated Enquire Within regularly, I can't imagine that questions about how corsets are constructed, why is arsenic beneficial, are gaslights safe in the home etc remained relevant.

M0nica Thu 22-Sept-22 19:43:52

The married women's stamp was abolished in 1977. That is 45 years ago, I doubt there are many not yet retired women who pad that for more than a handful of years, if at all.

I certainly didn't and was determined not to. I can remember the discusssions at work every time a woman married as to what she should do. I always wanted financial independence, married or single.

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 19:17:15

I've just looked it up.
Readers Digest is £22 odd per year for delivery of the magazines. smile

Delila Thu 22-Sept-22 19:02:43

smile

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 18:58:43

I've no idea.

I only read them in the doctors, and can't get an appointment these days.

Doodledog Thu 22-Sept-22 18:50:36

They had books giving sound advice on everything. Do they still publish now, or has Google done for them?

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 18:47:10

I used to love a good readers digest. smile

Doodledog Thu 22-Sept-22 18:19:20

MissAdventure

Do you think every hone had one of those books?
I'm sure ours might have.

Probably published by Readers' Digest grin

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 18:13:50

Do you think every hone had one of those books?
I'm sure ours might have.

Callistemon21 Thu 22-Sept-22 18:11:53

Callistemon21

MissAdventure

grin

My Dad had that book! I don't know if it was any use ?

But I bet it didn't advise against the Married Women's Stamp!

Callistemon21 Thu 22-Sept-22 18:11:04

MissAdventure

grin

My Dad had that book! I don't know if it was any use ?

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 18:10:09

grin

Callistemon21 Thu 22-Sept-22 18:09:03

We're experts on everything ?

Enquire Within Upon Everything
First published in 1856

MissAdventure Thu 22-Sept-22 18:07:06

Delila

Thanks for coming back BlushingSheep, sorry you’re feeling got at & can understand why. Hope you get things sorted.

And if you need more advice, our friendly team are at the ready. wink

Callistemon21 Thu 22-Sept-22 18:05:58

It's true that the admins/algorithms initially thought I might have been someone else who had been banned in the past, however, I spoke in private with them and we sorted things out. I am not this previously banned person

How very odd.
That's worrying, it could happen to any of us, I suppose.

Callistemon21 Thu 22-Sept-22 18:03:26

I realised well before the age the OP is, Doodledog but it's never too late to do something about it.

You just have to get on and do it.

Well, perhaps never is a bit of an exaggeration!

Delila Thu 22-Sept-22 17:59:58

Thanks for coming back BlushingSheep, sorry you’re feeling got at & can understand why. Hope you get things sorted.

Doodledog Thu 22-Sept-22 17:59:06

Callistemon21

^Not everyone does - it's not unusual for people not to pay in - particularly married women^

I think most people are more aware now and there is a wealth of information available on the internet.

Married women were persuaded to opt for the Married Women's Stamp years ago and were assured they would still receive a pension based on their husband's contributions.
Naïve? Perhaps, but it was reputable organisations which gave out this information, together with the paperwork ready for women to sign. I worked for the NHS; they did this.
It was misselling.
Presumably the employers saved by not having to pay a stamp for those employees as well.

Exactly my point! It is not at all unusual for women to sleepwalk into pension poverty - I don't think that makes them stupid or incompetent by any means.

BlushingSheep Thu 22-Sept-22 17:45:59

OK, I wasn't going to come back to this thread. As far as I was concerned it was done. I'd had all the advice and information I needed to move forward, so I suggested that the thread no longer needed to be active. That's all.
This constant and persistent sniping about the fact that I might be a troll, or not who I say I am is getting wearing now.
There are so many things going on in my life right now, I really don't need this. I posted, for the first time ever, in Gransnet for advice on something that I was panicking about, and lots of people gave me kind advice. It's true that the admins/algorithms initially thought I might have been someone else who had been banned in the past, however, I spoke in private with them and we sorted things out. I am not this previously banned person and I am new to Gransnet although not new to message boards.
I am feeling bullied and 'got at' and this is not what I expected from a forum of mature over 50-year-old women, but here we are.
I was asking for advice, some of which I knew I needed to do but just because I don't want to, doesn't mean I won't. It's a lot to take in on top of all the other things going on in my life right now, such as grieving for a parent, and so I'll need some time to adjust and get my ducks in a row.

I'm sure that some will say that I 'write too well', to be new, or lacking in self-confidence about the jobs I can do, well there's nothing I can do about that. That's how I type.

Those who believe that I'm fake will always believe that, and there's nothing I can do to change that, but for those of you who believed in me and gave me good advice and support. Thank you.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 22-Sept-22 17:33:53

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