OK, I wasn't going to come back to this thread. As far as I was concerned it was done. I'd had all the advice and information I needed to move forward, so I suggested that the thread no longer needed to be active. That's all.
This constant and persistent sniping about the fact that I might be a troll, or not who I say I am is getting wearing now.
There are so many things going on in my life right now, I really don't need this. I posted, for the first time ever, in Gransnet for advice on something that I was panicking about, and lots of people gave me kind advice. It's true that the admins/algorithms initially thought I might have been someone else who had been banned in the past, however, I spoke in private with them and we sorted things out. I am not this previously banned person and I am new to Gransnet although not new to message boards.
I am feeling bullied and 'got at' and this is not what I expected from a forum of mature over 50-year-old women, but here we are.
I was asking for advice, some of which I knew I needed to do but just because I don't want to, doesn't mean I won't. It's a lot to take in on top of all the other things going on in my life right now, such as grieving for a parent, and so I'll need some time to adjust and get my ducks in a row.
I'm sure that some will say that I 'write too well', to be new, or lacking in self-confidence about the jobs I can do, well there's nothing I can do about that. That's how I type.
Those who believe that I'm fake will always believe that, and there's nothing I can do to change that, but for those of you who believed in me and gave me good advice and support. Thank you.