My personal experience is that you have to be pretty unselfish if you choose to have a child. Your life revolves around the child and it’s needs for many years. At some stage other people, perhaps childless and not necessarily by choice, funded biglouis’s education, the disposal of the rubbish she produced, the maintenance of the roads on which she travelled, the library she went to and numerous other things. Other people’s children (such as mine) are now paying for her state pension, any benefits she receives (she has mentioned being disabled), the shortfall in council tax due to her discount, any medication she is prescribed and, should the need arise, any care which she may need beyond what she is required to fund herself.