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Who Should Have Mum’s Sports Car?

(35 Posts)
Callistemon21 Sun 23-Apr-23 23:16:22

providing it's full value is paid into her account.

Yes, when I re-read my post I realised I'd meant to add that.

Wyllow3 Sun 23-Apr-23 23:14:02

Hetty58

Your POA obligates you to act in her best interests - including financially. Therefore, it would be wrong to hand over her property to another family member. The car should be valued, then a 'lottery' arrangement would be acceptable - providing it's full value is paid into her account.

This sounds sensible. Except grandson not in the will, if it's going to Mum's children?

Callistemon21 Sun 23-Apr-23 23:12:29

The fairest way is to agree a value and for those who are interested to put their names in the hat.

Check out the price, it could be a classic.

What are your mother's views on the subject? Does she mind who has it? She sounds like a strong-minded woman, she must have a view 🙂

I like her style! 😁

crazyH Sun 23-Apr-23 23:04:34

Oh Musky17 - what an uplifting story 😍- your Mum has been driving her sportscar till the age of 91 - wow wow wow !!!
I’m quite a few years younger and am already thinking of giving up driving, after a minor accident (forgot sunglasses and blinded by bright sunshine).
Regarding the car, I think there should be so e sort of a ‘lottery’ or sell the car and divide between her children (ie you and your siblings).

Sago Sun 23-Apr-23 22:46:50

I would check the value of the car, my MIL had an SLK cabriolet it was older and sold for 10k.
Get it valued and give family first refusal, you hold POA so you have to act in your mothers best interests.

Mollygo Sun 23-Apr-23 21:47:25

This sort of question arose when my late F-I-L went into care. We had the item valued and it was up to family members who wanted it, to pay up.
The money would have been paid into
F-I L’s bank account and thus become part of the estate.
In the event, my F-i-L died before anything other than the valuation was done, so the person who wanted it most accepted it plus their share of the estate less the value of the object.

Hetty58 Sun 23-Apr-23 21:45:02

Your POA obligates you to act in her best interests - including financially. Therefore, it would be wrong to hand over her property to another family member. The car should be valued, then a 'lottery' arrangement would be acceptable - providing it's full value is paid into her account.

Casdon Sun 23-Apr-23 21:42:15

Why not ask her who she would like to have it, I think she should decide.

maddyone Sun 23-Apr-23 21:37:36

A lottery type type decision sounds wise, but the person who ‘wins’ the car should pay the value into mum’s estate. The car belongs to your mum after all.

Musky17 Sun 23-Apr-23 21:30:46

I can’t decide what’s fair. My Mum is 92 & is now happily resident in a care home, sadly unable to stand or walk. I have had Power of Attorney for her property & finance affairs for many years.
Her beloved Mercedes convertible car is 17 yrs old, has low
mileage and has been very well maintained. Unbelievably, she bought the car, against my late Father’s advice, when she was 75 and drove it until she reached 91! She called the car “the love of my life”
There are 4 of us siblings (I’m female aged 72 and have three younger brothers) Mum has eleven grandchildren ( all but 2 are boys) and four great grandchildren.
In the 10 months since Mum has been in the care home, one grandson (aged 25) has twice “expressed an interest” in the car according to his Father. A different Brother also mentioned how he might like it. (Too low for me!)
Presumably the car would normally eventually be part of Mum’s Estate.
I can only see that there may be ill-feeling if one family member takes the car now and I’d be blamed. Maybe I should tell everyone else & hold a kind of lottery? I’m guessing that Mum would like it if her treasure was kept in the family. It’s probably only worth £2-3k Any ideas please?