GSM - we are not being difficult about a solicitor. At times we have afforded 1.5-2 hour sessions with a solicitor, and a barrister has read over the case and given advice. Sadly, no matter how much we wish to be represented we do not have the financial wherewithal to do so. None of us are eligible for legal aid etc. Solicitors are invaluable, but none of us can afford a loan of the amount required, none of us have savings of this level, not do we know anyone wealthy who might lend to be repaid if we win, and very patient if we lose.
At first within 6 months of Mum dying he said their agreement (verbal) was that he paid the mortgage and he'd inherit the house. He did not pay the mortgage apart from 1982-1986. He persuaded (badgered) my Mum into agreeing 2 'loans', he paid 99% of the first to start a business, the second around 30,000 to buy a property as Finnish mortgages were too expensive.
When he removed his name from the register he used the same legal appointment for Mum to 'write her Will', but he basically told the solicitor what to put. This was found, as a draft, unsigned, 26 years later when she died, in amongst a bag of wallpaper waste in the airing cupboard...hardly the actions of someone who intended to implement that Will.
My brother can prove he paid under 10,000, we can prove Mum paid 34000 in total...of his debt, and her 11,000 mortgage. Mum didn't 'give him' a regular income - she paid the original mortgage and his loan to keep her home as she was his guarantor.
Please understand we do want to be represented - we know it is a complicated situation but also that it is incredibly expensive, at least 25- 35000 possibly up to 50,000. Where are we expected to find this amount of money?