I think everyone should spend when they need to and not have to worry about the taxman or the need to preserve money in case they need care. Re equity release, my husband has always said we should never do it. The terms of repayment are dire. If we need care we’ll use the house if necessary, or any monies we have. If one partner is still living in the house then the fees can be allowed to be paid when both are gone I understand but I expect the interest would be huge. I know my sister and her husband had to pay over £20,000 in outstanding care home fees, from the sale of the house when her mother in law died. I don’t know how other countries arrange this or if they allow gifts to be given tax free. In the UK the IHT starting point hasn’t risen for donkey’s years, despite the rise in property values. David Cameron promised to raise the starting point on IHT when he became MP but he didn’t. What he did do as understand it, was introduce the spouses rate, the £175000 ( I think that’s the figure) that can be used by people to leave their houses to their children. I think the house must be left to the children otherwise the extra amount is not applicable, so it means we can’t leave anything to our grandchildren otherwise the rate drops back to the £325000.
I think.