Organising affairs for future

There are lots of books on Amazon…

‘What to do when I die’ kind of titles.

I have one and it’s being filled in every time I think of something.

It cost around £6 and covers just about everything

I've recently been talking about this to my DH. This is a second marriage for both of us and most of his money is tied up in classic cars, motorbikes etc whereas mine is in savings and ISA's. I'm intending to split the information on mine between DH and DS. I was just concerned if I wrote everything down and kept it all in the one place someone may be able to access my accounts if we were burgled. So half of the information will go to DH and the other half to DS. They will need to get together and put both lots together if I go first.

On that note DH knows that I have no intention of dying first and he thinks I'm stubborn enough to make sure that happens.

I bought a 50 page see through book/ folder from Amazon did an index on first page and listed everything including where to find documents and relevant phone numbers.

Kateykrunch

People often mention that they have left a list of account numbers and PIN numbers, but unless it is a joint account, surely no-one can access someones account after they have died, wouldn't that be fraud?

The bank would be after you if you took out money from a deceased person's account . The account should have been closed anyway as soon as the bank was informed of the death. Best not to leave pin numbers at all as they might get into the wrong hands. If they did you would not have any chance of recovering the money as you had provided the PIN number to anyone .

yes, purchase many more copies of the death cert when registering, than you think you will need.
much easier than trying to get certified copies later.
you always need more than you imagine.

All of mine is neatly printed in a folder which I shall leave close beside me when I make the decision to end my life.

OldFrill

Here is the link to the Age UK book. You can phone for a free copy or download/print it off.
www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/money-legal/end-of-life-planning/lifebook/

This book was invaluable to us after Mum died. We think she may have thrown away many documents including her birth certificate and prepaid funeral arrangements. Fortunately she had put down information about the latter, who were able to find her funeral wishes from her name and birth date.

Do bear in mind with bank accounts that you need an ORIGINAL of the death certificate which can be bought when the certificate is issued. If you buy it later it is much more expensive.

I learned so much from my lovely Mum's death, and it made me think and talk about my death with my daughters.

Primrose53

Oopsadaisy1

I’ve recently typed up some pages with all our Pension Info on them. Various Insurances and their policy numbers. Along with their contact numbers and a photocopy of the latest letters from the various companies which states the values of the policies.
How to access our online bank accounts, again with the various passwords and PIN numbers.
Other details such as the boiler engineers telephone numbers and other household information.
I’ve printed it off and put it into a folder and I’ve told the family where I’ve put it along with our wills and a photocopy of the relevant pages of our Passports.
I have a separate file for the cars, insurances, MoT dates etc.
To gather the information I went to all the paperwork I keep in the filing cabinet, cross referenced it with monthly bank statements, where the payments come out, just to make sure nothing was forgotten.

Gosh, I am impressed! I should do that to be honest.👍

I’m impressed,,too!
We have told dds roughly where things are (in case of us both dying in a car or plane crash) but really should assemble a proper file.
My mother put all her info in an old briefcase, which was easy to find once needed - not after she died, but once dementia had rendered her incapable of managing anything. Luckily there was a P of A in place.

Kateykrunch

People often mention that they have left a list of account numbers and PIN numbers, but unless it is a joint account, surely no-one can access someones account after they have died, wouldn't that be fraud?

Some banks are willing to release limited amounts on production of a death certificate, pending a grant of probable/letters of administration,

Here is the link to the Age UK book. You can phone for a free copy or download/print it off.
www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/money-legal/end-of-life-planning/lifebook/

Deeds…….our Mortgage provider lets you keep £125 outstanding on your mortgage account and the deeds are kept in their deed store (obviously may be electronic or paper).

People often mention that they have left a list of account numbers and PIN numbers, but unless it is a joint account, surely no-one can access someones account after they have died, wouldn't that be fraud?

I bought a pretty pink box file a few years ago and it contains everything necessary to know after my death And a note book in which I have written lots of information.
It needs updating really. I must do this soon. Just in case.

I've kept everything, all papers are in order. Solicitor has her copies, as does my much younger brother. Yearly I accomplish updated info folders, each of our children have a current copy (I take old copies back/destroy).

Thank you all for your useful replies. I'm going to be busy. Will investigate the Age Concern book.

welbeck

thank you GSM.
you never let us down.

Indeed.

GSM never lets us down, informed, even handed, fair, logical.

our wills,insurance documents, copies of bank accounts, lawyer who has title deeds,are all kept in a box, and my family have been told where they are. from applying to buy our council house, and where we got the mortgage, I have kept all the documents..

😊

thank you GSM.
you never let us down.

Yes, the title to most properties in England and Wales is registered at the Land Registry and you can get a copy of your title online. If you inherit a property a document called an Assent is signed by the executors and sent to the Land Registry together with the appropriate fee and they will then update the title to show you as the owner.

i've no idea about deeds.
solicitor did what was necessary and supplied copy of title from land registry.
if you can prove that you have the right to inherit from the person named on the deeds/at land registry, with suitable ID, then it is quite simple for solicitor to transfer.
that's my user experience anyway.
GSM will explain properly.

I understand Deeds are kept on line with the Land Registry?

I know someone who did all the above, for much the same reasons.

When their only son came to it all, he discovered there were no deeds to the house!
I dont think he ever located them. In any solicitor's office, bank or anywhere.

Not sure that is such a problem nowadays, with things being more online?

Oopsadaisy1

I’ve recently typed up some pages with all our Pension Info on them. Various Insurances and their policy numbers. Along with their contact numbers and a photocopy of the latest letters from the various companies which states the values of the policies.
How to access our online bank accounts, again with the various passwords and PIN numbers.
Other details such as the boiler engineers telephone numbers and other household information.
I’ve printed it off and put it into a folder and I’ve told the family where I’ve put it along with our wills and a photocopy of the relevant pages of our Passports.
I have a separate file for the cars, insurances, MoT dates etc.
To gather the information I went to all the paperwork I keep in the filing cabinet, cross referenced it with monthly bank statements, where the payments come out, just to make sure nothing was forgotten.

Gosh, I am impressed! I should do that to be honest.👍

I’ve recently typed up some pages with all our Pension Info on them. Various Insurances and their policy numbers. Along with their contact numbers and a photocopy of the latest letters from the various companies which states the values of the policies.
How to access our online bank accounts, again with the various passwords and PIN numbers.
Other details such as the boiler engineers telephone numbers and other household information.
I’ve printed it off and put it into a folder and I’ve told the family where I’ve put it along with our wills and a photocopy of the relevant pages of our Passports.
I have a separate file for the cars, insurances, MoT dates etc.
To gather the information I went to all the paperwork I keep in the filing cabinet, cross referenced it with monthly bank statements, where the payments come out, just to make sure nothing was forgotten.