Personally I would favour a discretionary trust, where it’s up to the trustees whether and when they release money, and how much, with the fund not becoming the property of the beneficiary until they are older. But that would involve personal involvement unless you pay professional trustees. There are pros and cons with any type of trust and it’s an area where specialist advice is needed. The OP is in the unfortunate position of not really having enough of a grip on what her husband set up, and I think needs much more information.
Voting. I’m so glad we still have the ‘old fashioned’ system…


