Allira
No-one is surprised.
What is surprising on a site primarily aimed at older women is the disparaging comments and insinuations made about women who, through choice or otherwise, stayed at home for a number of years to bring up their own children.
I am not disparaging anyone. I am pointing out that pensions are a financial transaction and asking who you (and others) think should pay to give you a choice to stay at home for years? It's not just the pension - it's all the unpaid tax and so on that pays for all the things we all get, whether we pay towards them or not.
I think there are a lot of good points on this thread though - one size never fits all, and too many people are missing out who I’m sure were not intended to.
But. In threads where IHT is discussed, people are horrified that their heirs might be taxed on a windfall they (the heirs) haven’t earned. We are told that billionaires will leave the country if they are asked to pay more in tax.
We have lots of posts from people admitting that they didn’t pay fully into the pension scheme (ie the married woman's contribution) but complaining that they get less than those who did. Why wouldn't they? I don't think that those on the old pension have necessarily missed out, but equally, having had a pension for 6 years longer than those on the new one won't pay the bills today. I will claim my pension as soon as I'm able, and can't blame others for doing the same at 60.
We regularly have posts from those going on glamorous holidays and having home improvements or other big expenses, for whom the WFP can only be a nice gift rather than a lifeline, yet also complaining that the payment has been cut. IMO it is only fair that we should be able to spend our own money on making our homes comfortable and enjoying our retirement, but if we are doing that can we honestly claim to need help with the bills?
At the same time we know that children are going hungry, that the NHS is struggling, that services are being cut and that life is hard for people of all ages. But when the talk is of working-age benefits, few people on here are in favour of increasing them, and cite women getting their nails done or having phones as reasons why not, and we are told that they just need to learn to budget or batch cook.
What is the fairest way to plug these gaps? If we means-test, older people with occupational pensions or part-time jobs lose out to those without. Is it fair to penalise them for planning for retirement? Occupational pensions are not free. Young people in two-income families lose out to those where one chooses not to work. Someone who has worked for a promotion can find that the extra money lifts them above the threshold so misses out. It goes on and on.
If we have universal payments instead, they have to be smaller (to cover more people) and they sometimes go to those who can manage without, but sometimes only because of having the small pensions mentioned above, and round and round it goes.
If we pay things like WFP to everyone with less than £X in savings or £Y in income, is that fair to those who have already done without things in order to accrue those savings, and if we pay things like Child Benefit on the same basis will it stop people from doing more in order to earn a higher standard of living? And why shouldn't we all be able to use our own money for a 'rainy day fund' in case of accident or emergency, without it counting against us?
It’s like unraveling a ball of tangled yarn and they are just some of the anomalies.
I think the WFP has been handled badly. But I don’t think it is an attack on pensioners. It is an attempt to make things fairer across the board, which is all but impossible for the reasons above.